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23 F Branson, MO

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  • Ages 20–30
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  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:03pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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This page is going to be gutted when I have more patience. I am not who I once was. I was cheated on, felt a lot of pain, and have rebuilt myself. He found me on here, saw my kindness and thought it weakness, and exploited that. There are a lot of layers to who I am, where I have been, and who I want to be. I may be moving in a couple months. That's all for now.


I met my first and only "real" boyfriend on this exact website in January. We had our first date on February 15th. We broke up this past Friday (June 20th). My heart is in pieces. I lived with him and his dying grandmother pretty much the majority of the time. She passed away, we grew distant, and our paths were no longer going the same way. While I can't stop thinking about the place I almost met my future husband, I need to allow myself to heal. Not to mention I may be moving to California within a couple of months. I am a changed woman. I am currently in the process of breaking myself down so I can build back up. I'm still in mourning. I don't know why I am telling you this here. Maybe on the off chance I wind up marrying one of you, perhaps. Maybe because I feel so isolated at the moment. Perhaps because this is actually a very fun place to make new friends. Anyway, feel free to talk to me. I don't know if I'll ever go back on here again, but we all have those moments of weakness and loneliness.

If you want to know the truth, I'm pretty damn awesome. Sometimes I think I scare people off by being such an exemplary human being. People aren't really ready for that kind of commitment.

Lately my focus has been working out, becoming a better me, and I'm pretty damn content with that.

I grew up in Southern California 'til I was about 13 when a series of life-changing events sent me to southwest Missouri. At first I hated it here, but it really has become a second home.

All throughout middle and high school I found a real home in band, choir, color guard, theatre, and creative writing. I have stories and music in my head all day e'ry day, sometimes I can't help but sing parts of it out loud.

I left almost my entire family in California, so I had to make a new one. My friends mean the world to me, there's nothing I won't do for someone I know I love.

I love camping, canoeing, kayaking, hiking, playing in the snow, dancing, yoga, camping, traveling, camping, bonfires, dressing up, camping, making shit and reading shit and singing shit and fixing shit. Also camping.

Probably my favorite thing is settling down after a good, long, productive day and just cuddling, chilling by a fire or in a truck bed with a zillion blankets. Actually I've never done the latter with anyone but we seriously need to make that the new cool thing.

Thrift stores are probably the best things in the whole world. Don't take me to one if you want attention and can't handle excitement.

I have tattoos and peircings. Nothing too flashy yet; treble clef on my hand in white ink, tribal phoenix on my neck, lyrics on my forearm, tongue pierced, ears pierced multiple times, nose pierced. I'm past due for new ink but I like to wait for fate to let me know when it's time.

I have nothing against religion, but I don't associate myself with one. I follow my own religion. Mostly I aim to be a good person and spread smiles and common sense.

I'm not cheap. I may still be working on my self-confidence, but I am actually a very good lover. I am a very good friend. I am a very good employee. I am high-quality. You won't be sorry you met me. :]

Number 1: Pardon my crudeness, but I can get penis whenever I want. I'm here for friends, or I am here for a RELATIONSHIP.

Number 2: If I don't reply in a timely manner I am probably on the course of dating someone, I am working a ton and am exhausted, or I simply need to be single for a minute. I don't really take relationships lightly, I'm open with everything else. If I've worked up the balls to let you to take me on a date, and that date goes well enough that we have more planned, I am not going to be fiddling on a dating site looking at other guys.

Number 3: I am curvy. Not fat, not skinny. I work out, I eat healthfully, I don't tan. When I'm hungry, I eat. When I'm mad or lazy, I work out. I am a human being, not a mannequin. I'm awesome and I hate endings so don't start something you can't finish.

Number 4: I've been through a few things. They don't shape me, but they did make me stronger. It's not baggage, it's a plot twist. I am not perfect, but I am one of the most loving, caring, genuine, hard-working people you will meet. I've come to the conclusion that people like me are truly hard to find. I do not throw people away. I do not trust easily. I do not let people in on a whim. I am a fantastic person with the right treatment. From now on I am going to love myself the way I want someone else to. :]
What I’m doing with my life
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I don't really have a master plan. Unless you count seeking happiness and strength whenever I can. I look for adventure and let life take me where it will.

I love camping, float trips, hiking, yoga, going out for drinks and doing anything involving friends, dancing, I will never turn down a decent concert or movie or random downtown event, I love dressing up, I love completely random things. When I'm home I usually plan my night around bathing. I freaking love being clean. I love working on projects or just reading.

When we're not in the off-season (usually January 1st-February 21st), I work like a crack head. I work at a show in Branson and we have some seriously crazy busy times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a kick-ass worker. I'm a dynamite lover. I'm fantastic at remembering important things like your favorite concrete at Andy's or your favorite color or where your brother is stationed or what food you hate. I've never had a boyfriend in the "traditional" sense, but I can tell you right now that if I let my guard down enough to be myself around you you are going to get so lazy and fat! Haha.

Anything involving effort I'm your gal. I love interior decorating, I love driving, I love singing, I love writing, I love working out, I love kids and babies so I'm fairly sure I'm good at whatever that means. Teaching? Growing things? Not that I'm on the hunt for a sperm donor, I'm just saying I take kids kind of seriously. Childhood is not valued as it should be. Too often little people are never given a voice, are bullied and trampled on and told they need to be more. I feel like if I was a fairy, I would be one that protected kids. And I'm not ashamed of that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my eyes, my smile, in that order.

I have hip-length reddish-blonde hair (I'm naturally light-blonde), full lips, and green eyes. I'm curvy, 5'6, influenced by the pin-up look or anything vintagey and old and delicious. I'm quiet in new situations, but with time and trust and comfort I open up, just like anyone I guess!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I <3 books! I'm kind of a snob, if it doesn't catch my attention I fall asleep. Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Twilight, and the Sookie Stackhouse novels are my go-tos. Yes, I realize I just listed the "typical" female reading list. I'm always adding more, I have stacks of books and notebooks everywhere, it would take forever to list!

I love movies!! Especially anything about superheroes! I love $1 Tuesday and the Midnight Madness showing of Rocky Horror at the Palace, plus any good premiers at the Campbell. Tombstone, Across the Universe, Moulin Rough, Silver Lining's Playbook, SO many more!

I don't watch very much TV but I love Extreme Makeover: Home Edition, Design on a Dime, While You Were Out, Long Island Medium on Netflix, Orange is the New Black, Family Guy cracks me up, the Colbert Report and The Daily Show, I own every season of True Blood, and dig anything about ghosts or psychics.

Music!! Can't say enough about it! If I didn't have band and choir back in the day I don't know what I would have turned into. Classic rock is my go-to genre, indie speaks to me the most, and add dashes of opera, classical, popular, and folk. I loooove 30s, 40s, and 50s jazz like Billie Holiday and Etta James. Lately country has grown in my heart, I love the folk sound and the stories behind the lyrics. I love banjos and fiddles and a good acoustic. I loathe 85% of rap or techno.

A list of perfection:
Mumford and Sons, Dashboard Confessional, Flogging Molly, Billie Holiday, Etta James, Florence & the Machine, The Ramones, ACDC, The Doors, Led Zepplin, Sublime, Johnny Cash, The Wallflowers, Amy Winehouse, Coldplay, Fun, Janice Joplin, Lilly Allen, Queen, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Spice Girls, Adele, The Beatles, The Smiths, MGMT, Pink, and SO much more. I'm always adding.

As for food: I've been pescetarian (the only meat I eat is fish) since the 8th grade. I love being healthy, I love sandwiches and water and salad, I love Mexican food, love sushi but I'm not skilled at it yet, I absolutely adore Italian, quinoa, veggies, berries, fruit, and saladddd and fruit and smoothies. I love breakfast, I love baking stuff for other people. Sometimes I make clam chowder and home-made sourdough bread and bread bowls but I have a tendency to eat everything so I try not to too often. If someone mentions wanting something I will learn how to make it. If I have a craving for something I will tweak it so it's healthy, or eat just what I want and give the rest to other people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Some sort of exercise or physical movement
2) People I love
3) Music
4) Good books and writing utensils
5) Creative projects
6) A sense of purpose
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about what kind of person I want to be, who I've been, who I think I am. I think a lot about what has happened in the past, what my family has been through, what my ancestors must have been through. I think about whether I'm doing everything I can for people, I think about how amazing it would be to fly, to live someone else's life, to be in a book, to be famous, to be a writer or actress or someone profound and cool. Also how fantastic it would be to be with someone who wants me around for an indefinite amount of time, someone I not only love but who genuinely loves me, not just the body parts attached.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, working out, bathing, Netflixing, sleeping, hanging with friends, watching a movie, running around downtown, playing dress-up, drinking, reading, fiddling on Facebook, Instagramming, etc. Speaking of which, feel free to add me! @brinnyme1521. :]
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you bite me, your clothes are coming off. I'm not kidding. Anything to do with the neck, really. Also if you have nice biceps. And vests. The whole suit thing in general. And uniforms.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a firefighter, EMT, cop, nurse/doctor, teacher, or your career involves/involved wearing a uniform, I'm probably halfway undressing you anyway, haha!

I will immediately judge you if your message contains "u" "ur" "lolz" "hey" "hi" "i'm" "im" "nice eyes" or "nice hair".

Pink once said on Oprah that you should make a list of all the qualities you'd like in a partner and make sure you have them all yourself. Nobody is perfect, I like spending time with all kinds of people, but here are some qualities I'd like to encounter:

If you aren't lazy, if you don't mind being a listener every now and then, if you are okay with the mere IDEA of reproduction EVENTUALLY, if you are genuinely prepared to love, if you are prepared to deal with all of the people who love me, if you get a bit jealous, if you like being happy and laughing, if you're manly but not a douche, if you're not snobby or pushy about your religion (or lack thereof), if you don't hate cats, if you treat everyone with courtesy, if you have tattoos or peircings, if you love music/movies/going out/camping/float trips, if you have fun friends, if you like old things, if you love being intimate, if you are capable of saying the "L" word when the time is right, if you think you can compliment me even if I threaten your life, if you think you could want to show me off, if you love cuddling.

By all means send me a message anyway, I love talking to people! :] If you only send one or two words I won't even reply, sorry!