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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:14pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English, Italian, French, Spanish, Other (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
All at the same time - I can be charming, critical, sweet, cranky, loving, opinionated, quixotic, romantic, knowledgeable, sarcastic, caring, stubborn, passionate, stylish, adventurous, sexxy, a smart ass, fiercely independent, a total sap, a loony, bitterly cynical, and that’s today...

As for tomorrow...……??
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to avoid making bad TeeVee.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Cooking is a passion. Grew up in the Wine and Food business here in NYC. Let's go shopping...and see what's in your cupboard…We can go from there...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have two feet???....???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The current Bookshelf -- PIMP by Iceberg Slim, "La Strada del Fungo e El Tartufo" (it's a cookbook), the latest chronicles of the Beaudelaire orphans in "A Series of Unfortunate Events", a Charles Bukowski novel, a Bartle Bull yarn, a trashy Andrew Vachss mystery, and the latest issues of Saveur, Skin Two, and W magazines.

Some Cinema titles on the front burner -- Casablanca, All That Jazz, The Killing (NOT the series, Kubrick), Breathless, Murder My Sweet, La Strada, Belle de Jour, Manhattan, His Girl Friday, The Thin Man, Fritz the Cat, Buckaroo Banzai, Panic in Needle Park, ..... who's kidding who here??
Way too many to mention.
Film Noir, to Animation, to Grade-B Shlock, to Independent Film, to Documentaries ... the list keeps on growing.

On the Victrola -- Jazz and Big Band today. All sorts of weirdness tomorrow. Afro-Cuban Punk???

Gastronomy -- Alpaca Milanese to Mâche to HoHos. Your call...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A valid Passport.
A pocket knife.
A notepad and pen.
An accomplice.

Still waiting for two more.....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where are we going to find a garden hose and a gorilla suit at this time of night????
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Collecting pencil shavings....

What are we doing? C'Mon.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's discuss it over cockytales...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a "Lanky brunette with wicked jaws."-"The Thin Man", Dashiell Hammett.

In other words - nice legs, dark hair, and smarter than I am.

Give me a me a shout!