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22 M Northampton, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Working on two-year college
Less than $20,000
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Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hi folks,

I'm Ben. I'm 20 years old, and I currently live in Turners Falls, but I'd rather claim I live in greenfield or Northampton.

I'm a friendly person for the most part, but I don't have a plethora of hobbies. Mostly my time is spent doing important real life things like work, out with my friends, and then most of my free time when I don't have people to do stuff with, is spent playing video games or reading fantasy stuff. I like anime and manga, because I think hero values are the shit.

Anywho, what I'm looking for is for a girl to share what little I have with, and expand my horizons by trying to take in some of her life as my own. I don't have a ton of money, and I'm not wonderful with the outdoors, but I'll do my best to try something before Knocking it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finishing up my year long position as a VISTA Volunteer at Community Action! In greenfield. (Job ends August 27th). After that I'll be returning to greenfield community college, to try and figure out exactly how to best use my life. I'd like to go back to doing some martial arts, but I'm pretty lazy until someone motivates me, so we'll see about that part.

I'd really like to just try some new things, and broaden my life a bit.
I’m really good at
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Video games. It's almost unhealthy. =_=;;
Thinking deeply about things.
Trying to make people laugh. I'm good at the trying part, not necessarily the success.
Acting, I did plays back in high school, people told me I wasn't too shabby.

And I'm not sure about anything else. I'm good at being overly critical of myself, and rely a little on the opinions of others to point out good things about me, so... Yeah.

Oh. And I'm good at listening if I get the idea that it's serious.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm uh... Obnoxiously loud, and I can't really control it if I get excited or something. It bothers my friends a lot, haha.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Pendragon series, things by Anne McCaffrey, Camp Halfblood and other Rick Riordan works. Hitchiker's guide to the galaxy, discworld, basically anything fantasy. Ah, and lots of manga, not sure about including that here though.

Movies: I will watch pretty much any movie. And enjoy it. I like stories, but, I do have a hard time rewatchong the same movie over and over.

Shows: Anime shiz(Shounen and Seinen stuff for the technical people), Dr. Who, old cartoons, Supernatural, Scrubs, Family guy and the ilk, and basically anything on comedy central.

Music: My taste in music is random and weird. Not concrete enough to really document.

Food: I eat a lot of chicken, and pasta, and anything that involves them. I also love fresh pastry, and am known to keep the fridge stocked with cans of those rolls you tend to have on thanksgiving.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Things to over think about needlessly. Anything will do for this.
Other people. I don't like being alone.
Fantasy types of entertainment, be it books, video games, anything.
My family. I may act like they are problems, but they save my ass too many times to count.
My really weird luck.
And... The Internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything. People I know, things I want to say, situations I want to happen, video games, fantasies, anything that can keep my mind continually occupied.

I obsess a lot, it keeps my mind working.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd prefer to be with my friends, but sadly I'm mostly at home, playing video games. I don't enjoy this lifestyle anymore, but years of repitition made it a thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've had horrible luck with dating thus far, and I was pressured by my friend Talenyn-sama to make this profile.

Yeah. She wrote that, but it's true.
You should message me if
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Any reason. I'm up for random conversation, and all that jazz.

Also, it's pretty much a given you're going to have to be ok with me spending a pretty large deal of time playing games, reading books, or watching TV. Also, be able to deal with me being not ok with the fact that I do that.