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Bejay2

44 / M / straight / Single

Nederland, Netherlands

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English, Dutch, German

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Your Notes

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I am easy going, open minded, and steady.

My Self-Summary

Should i try to have clever and intelligent comments onhere?..will change and complete this along the way i guess.
Now in Dutch
Doe dit maar zoveel mogelijk in het engels, is tenslotte een internationale site. Should i try to have clever and intelligent comments onhere?..will change and complete this along the way i guess.

What I’m doing with my life

too little / too much work (trying to get my priorities right)
Now in Dutch
te weinig / te veel werk (moet toch eens keuzes maken)

I’m really good at

listening...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

movies; Paris texas, Remains of the day
Now in Dutch
music; Bruce Springsteen, Black Crowes, Blues in all it forms and shapes, old soul, some Jazz, etc etc (the list goes on).
books; John Dollar by Marianne Wiggins, anything by William Boyd (try it!), Zen and the art.....
Movies of the top of my head; Paris texas, Remains of the day..

The six things I could never do without

Now in Dutch
music, family (although not seeing them everyday), sex (should i apologize for being a guy?), driving my bike (if only once a year), good food (try anything once).

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

being a melancholic romantic..ahum of zo iets.

You should message me if

any reason is ok..and if you can stand back, take a look and laugh about yourself...