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BellaSolanae
28 / F / bisexual / Single
Boulder, Colorado
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 5' 4" (1.62m).
- Body Type
- Curvy
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- —
- Religion
- Other and laughing about it
- Sign
- Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Working on college/university
- Job
- Transportation
- Income
- Less than $20,000
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), German (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am passionate, intelligent, and kind.
My Self-Summary
Also, since few people read through the rest of these, I'm interested in learning to drive stick-shift on a car. I've been taught before, but I am not overly proficient. Its becoming a necessity in my life and I'm not good with hills, or getting out of idle into first. If you are patient, I would love a good teacher.
What I’m doing with my life
In my spare time, I'm working on an organic vegetable garden. I knit, dance, do yoga, and make fun of Boulder, Colorado.
I am working on laughing more. If you are good at making someone laugh, we should meet.
I’m really good at
cooking
walking and picking my nose at the same time
being a total goofball
being a morass of moodiness
I'm great with plants.
Falling over with laughter
being a good friend and listening
living on a shoestring
being pissed off and intense
being Oscarella the Grouch
hanging out with my dark side, much to the chagrin of Boulder
swearing like a sailor
looking up obscure sexual terminology, just for the hell of it.
Then I use it! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
bright and sensual
self-possessed
casual maintenance person
beautiful
creative, funny, intelligent, sexy and thoughtful
warm, loyal, sensual, aesthetic, enlightened humor
I suppose people notice what I look like and that I have nice eyes. This is a silly question!!
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
If you want a woman who can discuss Marx, Bohr/Plank/Einstein, shamanism and gleefully deconstruct Derrida while swearing like a sailor, hit me up for some drunken intellectualism. People who can keep up with me intellectually are my ultimate aphrodisiac. That said, sometimes during the semester all I want after a long day of writing papers on post-structural theory is someone who can hold me close and say, "Ah, yes, darling, but I also love you for your ass." (This is in reference to a poem by Sandra Cisneros). Bonus points if you cook for me!
I love ecofeminism, philosophy, critical theory, and the study of religions. I love looking at complex interconnected systems to see how they work. I'm in awe of the world around me. I am so small. The universe is so complex, large and interesting! I should have been an anthropologist, as people fascinate me.
Favorite Book of all time: A Wrinkle In Time
Things I read for Fun: Laurell K. Hamilton, Harry Potter, anything that's a good story. If you love to discuss books, I am game.
Music: I ADORE music and couldn't live without a decent stereo. I LOVE classic rock. I also am into jazz, Lorenna McKennitt, ambient, goth, some industrial, blues, celtic, KBCO, and just about anything except country. I have a deep love for classical music. I played the piano for many years, classical and jazz. I used to do my own ambient and goth radio show at a community radio station.
Musically, you will find I am quite tolerant. That doesn't mean I will ever love your music, but I will put up with it. As a real example of tolerance, I went to a Barry Manilow concert with my mom because she loves Barry Manilow and it was her birthday. I danced right along with her. Hey, Copacabana is still a good song, and Manilow is a great showman. I haven't figured out how he trained at Juilliard and became Barry, but the world is full of mysteries. I also used to listen to co-workers' endless replays of Skinny Puppy, the top 40 pop station, bluegrass with sitar solos, and really bad thrash punk when I cooked professionally. However, the kitchen did make him break up the bad thrash with Tom Waits to give our eardrums a rest.
Food: I love good Italian, which is hard to find in Boulder. I also love Mediterranean and Indian food. And there's nothing like Lucile's Creole Cafe. NOTHING. I'm a sucker for a good burger or pizza and beer. Mostly, if its not ramen, I'm a happy camper.
I love to cook. If I like you, I will cook for you.
If you want to woo me, take me to a place with marvelous food. Doesn't have to be expensive/pretentious. But it must taste good!!
Movies: uhm...I'm not much of a film person. But Video Station RULES!
And I love Bruce Campbell's Bubba-Hotep! What a wonderfully stupid movie. JFK and his race change! That said, I love watching movies and if you're into it, relaxing with a movie is fine with me.
The six things I could never do without
clean water
music
deep friendships
a guiding vision
Chocolove Chocolate (I'm partial to Chilis and Cherries, and the Orange Peel in Dark Chocolate)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sex
economic security
social justice
gender issues
sex
composting and environmental issues
permaculture
community gardening as a form of revolution
open-pollinated seeds and heirloom varieties
genetic and biological diversity
being pissed off that Monstinkos GMO corn got into the teosinte genome.
more sex
religion
mysticism (sex in the head/sex with god/ddess/no god)
paganism
what I will do with my life after school ends
music
plants
creating my own sexual/spiritual revolution of flesh and spirit
how much I can't wait to be done with school
relationships and of course, sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
If you're up for exploring Denver and its wonderous scenes, I'm game. Saturday night is the night out for dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
As a teenager, to entertain my friends, I used to stick french fries up my nose, waggle them around, then pull them out and eat them. I can't believe I just posted this on the internet.
You should message me if
You are good at driving stick-shift and want to teach someone! *HINT, HINT*
You're a brave, open-hearted human being who loves making a good friend even if romance doesn't work out.
You're good at walking and picking your nose at the same time too!
You love strong women.
You want a real gem of a human being, who of course, has her flaws.
You've done your work on becoming a grown-up. By this, I mean: being responsible, facing your shadows and your feelings, dealt with pain, rejection and learned to be your honest, authentic self. I'm not into children inhabiting adult bodies!
you're a vibrant, funny person who loves to make others laugh.
you can also appreciate Bubba-Hotep.