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Bella_Belle2

34 / F / Straight / Single

Dothan, Alabama

Her Details

Last Online
May 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Must love curvy girls, kids, and great big slobbery dogs.... not necessarily in that order.

I'm curvy/full-figured/voluptuous/fat - You choose your word - so that's obviously important. I don't want to mislead anyone. My son who is 5 is the most important thing in my life so that is also extremely high-ranking. My 8 year old great dane/lab/hound mix that was a rescue dog has been with me through everything so he isn't going anywhere either. The cat got lost in the move... Yes, the big major shift in my life recently. I moved from Atlanta, GA where I have lived for the past 12 years.... single, then married, the divorced/single mom.... Yep, I went through a lot while I was gone from Dothan. Will it be the same for me? I suppose only time will tell.

What about astrology? Do you believe in it? I don't really but somehow my astrological sign and it's traits are relatively true for me. I'm a Gemini - dead in the center.

Traditional Gemini traits include:
*Adaptable and versatile
*Communicative and witty
*Intellectual and eloquent
*Youthful and lively

... and on the dark side....
*Nervous and tense
*Superficial and inconsistent
*Cunning and inquisitive

Another site describes us as entertaining, energetic, naughty and curious but also says we may get bored easily however we have a versatile and intellectual nature.

I can't even pretend those things don't describe me, so I won't. I have a million ideas about things but have trouble finishing one thing before I'm ready to start on another.

Since I don't really believe in astrology the fact that I'm most compatible with Virgo and Scorpio according to some and Aquarius and Libra according to others shouldn't matter... but I do find myself curious but then inquisitive is one of my "dark side" traits. My closest friends would agree that these traits describe me but then again they are my friends so they are sure to remind me that the good far outweighs the bad.

Other things you should be able to learn to love about me:
* my coffee habit. (Bonus points if you know what a latte is, double bonus points if you know what a “Triple Grande Skinny Caramel Macchiato is & triple points if you can make one at home!).
* I like to talk. It's the way I figure out problems. It doesn’t always mean I am looking for you to give me an answer to the problem just that discussing it helps me work it out in my head.
* I like to give and get attention. I'll try not to smother you but I do like staying in close contact with my friends. I utilize technology - text messages, facebook, etc - a lot.
* I am a single mom to the most adorable little boy and yes, we have a ferret (no more ferret), a 100-lb dog, and a cat.
What I’m doing with my life
Starting a new job and a brand new chapter in my life! Creating a happy and peaceful place for myself and my son.... Spoiling my animals.... working on getting back in better shape... trying to save money for a couple of different things I want to do in the future.
I’m really good at
*Cooking (some things)
*Procrastination
*Spoiling my kid
*Spoiling my friends and family
*Listening (at times)
*Remaining calm under pressure
*Finding good deals
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm open to suggestions on this one... I am honestly not sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I used to read a lot before I had a child. Now I read more Dr. Seuss than anything else but what I have discovered that is an absolute joy for me are audio books. I drive a lot and listening to books is fabulous! I just listened to one of Dean Koontz books. I also have recently enjoyed a couple of popular fantasy writers - Laurell K. Hamilton's Merry series (I haven't read the Anita books yet) and Raymond Feist.

Movies: Thomas the Tank Engine and any grown-up movie I get a chance to see. I like Romance, Action/Adventure, Comedy, Drama and some Science Fiction/Fantasy. I also watch a lot of TV shows.. NCIS, NCIS: LA, CSI and CSI: Miami, Law & Order, True Blood. I play catch up every few weeks thanks to OnDemand and Hulu.

Shows: I love plays and musicals and would love to see more of them. I also love comedy clubs and hope I can enjoy more nights out on the town in the near future.

Music: If you stole my iPhone you'd find a wide mix of music..... Classic rock - Steve Miller Band, CCR, etc and I guess you'd call it Modern or 90's Rock like Alanis Morrisette, Counting Crows... toss in some of the current Top 40 stuff, a few great country songs and I'm good to go!

Food: I'm way more concerned about what I drink that what I eat. I want good coffee, good wine and coca-cola. With all that who needs food? I do like most types of food though Italian and Japanese would probably be among my favorites and of course we can't forget high quality chocolate!
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order
* my little man
* my blankie
* Starbucks triple grande caramel macchiatos
* good milk chocolate
* my iPhone
* adult conversation/companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
all the things I should be doing instead of whatever I am doing at the time or the things I want to do in the future - from later today to 10 years from now

How people would feel if they knew that little box on the right hand side said they were "less desiring of sex" or "less adventurous"... who wants to be labeled that way?
On a typical Friday night I am
enjoying a happy hour drink with friends/co-workers, spending time with friends somewhere else, watching Disney, Nick Jr, etc or hanging out at "the library" known to most adults as Barnes & Noble and letting the little dude play with the train table.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
See above...... I admitted I have a blankie.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
(1) My weight isn't an issue for you
(2) You like to laugh and have fun
(3) You'd like to have a new friend to do things with
(4) You aren't just looking for a sex partner. Don't get my wrong. I like sex as much as the next person but I want more from someone I meet. Until then my batteries will suffice.