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Bella_Melodia

22 F Santa Rosa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:29am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Transportation
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Okay.. I'm here, now what are your other two wishes?

I'm delightfully odd in a good way. I've been told that I am an old soul. I have the gift for gab and I am Italian so I talk with my hands. I love to dance and do so most any chance I have. I get told from time to time that I am intimidating, it's because I call people out on their bs. Honestly, I am a kind, generous person so you may be pleasantly surprised if you decide to message me.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a commercial driver while I work my way through school. I also work in catering. I recently finished a bartending class. I am one class away from finishing my baking and pastry certificate and a semester away from getting my Social and Behavioral Science AA.
I’m really good at
Social partner dancing and line dancing

Cooking especially baking. My pies are glorious!

Making people laugh.. if not with me then at me, I have a little bit of a clumsy streak lol.

Randomly breaking out in song and dance.. when a song comes on that I know I have to fight the urge to sing along, the song usually wins out.

Making bad puns... I like to see people smile!

Catch Phrase, Backgammon, Rummy, and Egyptian war (card game).. oh and remember that game Jenga? I used to be pretty bomb at that.

Political debates, psychological theory, and arguing in general.. careful I'm stubborn.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, curly hair, and green eyes. Also that carry myself well. I get a lot of comments on my eyes... especially now that I have red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS:
The Things They Carried, Microaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, Gender, and Sexual Orientation (yes it is a textbook.. and yes I did have fun reading it), Their Eyes Were Watching God, Finding Alaska, Define Normal, Divinci Code, and Digital Fortress.

MOVIES:
My favorite movie is the Sound of Music.. it was a childhood favorite that I have yet to grow out of. Bio Dome, Big Fish, Birdcage, Remember the Titans, Sister Act 1 and 2, Con-Air, Some Like It Hot, How High, The Princess Bride, Boondock Saints 1 and 2, Steel Toes, Back to the Future Trilogy, Water, Bodyguard, Secondhand Lions, Ghostbusters 1 and 2, Grown Ups, Everybody Wants to Be Italian, You Kill Me, TiMER, The Godfather Trilogy, It's a BoyGirl Thing, Jack, Mermaides.. etc. I love documentries, maybe that's weird but it's me. Most anything with Meg Ryan, Adam Sandler, Hugh Jackman, Antonio Banderas, or Tom Hanks. Also anything Charlie Chapman or Abbott and Costello. I'm the type of girl that will sit on the couch with you and watch sports, MMA, and UFC; and I'll probably get into it more than you do.

As for TV shows.. I don't have a tv, but I love Mad Men, Firefly, HIMYM, Numb3rs, New Girl, Big Bang Theory, Sons of Anarchy, Devious Maids, Master Chef, Haven, Leverage etc.. I think you get the point.

MUSIC:
Country, classic rock, Motown, rock, alt., some pop, some rap, some hip hop, reggae, dubstep, and reggaeton. I also like some classical, acoustic, most anything with a violin or a saxophone or Irish. Frank Sinatra!, Andy McKee, P!nk, The Black Keys, Pitbull, The Script, Josh Turner, Train, (< get it? >) Pat Monahan, Miranda Lambert, Kings of Leon, Mumford and Sons is a new favorite, Paramore, Skrillex, Journey... and the list goes on and on. Lately I've been really into Norah Jones, Bright Eyes, and the song Gotten by Slash ft. Adam Levine. I also love just about anything dance related.. case in point half of the stations on my Pandora are Reggaeton.

FOOD:
I will try most anything once, but if I don't like it you probably won't change my mind. Top three are Mexican, Indian, and Chinese... not necessarily in that order. I really like French and Puerto Rican food too. I like to cook almost as much as I like to eat. I tend to cook more Italian style food and I love trying new things when I get the chance. I love vegetables but I'm not a vegetarian.

I make really good soups. I've been making homemade pasta since I was like 10. I can make pumpkin pies from scratch, including cooking the pumpkin. I have made jam, gnocci, lumpias, tamales, chorizo, ravioli, and bread all from scratch.. hungry yet? Yeah I thought so. I recently fell in love with baking, I really love fresh bread and pizza dough.. ohh zeppolis yum!

I will not eat: Mayonnaise, bananas, cauliflower, carrots, and scallops.
The six things I could never do without
1. My family. My friends are my family so no I'm not forgetting them.
2. Of course the essentials of sunlight, food, shelter, and water.. and yes I am counting the essentials as one.
3. Music and dance.
4. Good verbal communication in my relationships.
5. Riveting conversations with intelligent or insightful people.
6. Freedom.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want out of life. What I expect from people and what I think I deserve in my relationships.

The fact that I want to get into Archery and shooting... (active goal). Also what type of bow I want. And why bullets are so stinkin' expensive.
On a typical Friday night I am
I've been more of a homebody than I'd like to admit. I'm working on getting back out and being social again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I snort when I laugh.. and I dance and sing while cleaning and cooking, especially to Motown.. I watch the food network when I have writers block.. I still love to color but I refrain myself unless a small child is present :D
I also have problems saying no to people when they ask for help. I'm a fixer and even if it is incredibly inconvenient, I try to help. I have a tendency for taking on too much, and spreading myself too thin.
I am stubborn almost to a fault but I do listen to other people and their opinions, I just don't waver in my own. Just because you "win" an argument doesn't mean that you changed my opinion. I tend to find it easier to agree to disagree.

To be honest, I guess the most private thing that I am willing to admit is that I'm on here.. though I promise to lie about how we met :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
..you're interested. Go ahead and shoot me a message, what have you got to lose?

If you can handle the dichotomy of me liking to wear dresses, heels, and have my nails done; yet, at the same time love to go out shooting, muddin', and camping etc.
...If you didn't have to look up the meaning of dichotomy.