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BemshaSwing

26 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Arabic (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have an almost debilitating interest in everything. Try me. I will be intrigued.

I know: so earnest. But I see cynicism as location for struggle not as something I want to sport for self-identification.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I call NYC home but am often on the road or in the air. I see you, Miami, you've almost got my heart.

Most recently, I made a long due return to the arts as the right hand to a prominent painter.

Previously, hard-knuckled domestic political operating. And then working abroad getting micro finance operations off the ground in far-flung places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Running impulses to ground. Being intensely interested. Flourish. Careening between savoir-faire and a willing guilelessness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The long shadow. Literally, not proverbially.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read, watch, and listen, widely and often.

I adhere to the adage, "if you go home with someone and they don't have books, don't sleep with them. Seriously: don't."

That's John Waters speaking, though my choice in movies isn't always so half-cracked.

No to favorites. Currents:

You are witnessing the coronation of King Kendrick Lamar. Major Lazer's "Get Free" has been on repeat for a minute now. As has the "Love This Giant" album by St. Vincent and David Byrne.

Today it was Donny Hathaway, Beirut, Wu Tang, Francoise Hardy, and Little Dragon.

So who knows? I am a cultural omnivore. I wish there were a better phrase, one that doesn't imply the violent consumption of culture. But, eh, you feel me?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
poetry vs. potatoes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not highbrow, not lowbrow: unibrow. Down for it all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please excuse this interruption to our regularly scheduled programming:

1. If you have pictures of yourself sporting (ironically or otherwise) "indian facepaint", co-opted Native American apparel, etc.

update: just don't with "it's Halloween." Do. Not.

or

2. If you glibly, erroneously fuck around with listing your ethnicity (again, ironically or as some misguided statement of "colorblindness")

I say, respectfully, please move along.

Alternatively, even if you don't do those things, but need an explanation as to why either of the above is unacceptable, then we will not get along.