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Bemymisterright

61 / F / Straight / Single

Durham, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:07pm
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
In my life, I've lived with 2 brothers, dated several men and was married for over 20 years. I understand men in general......I get men, and I realize sometimes women can be a bit overbearing, but we can't help it - we want to be nice, helpful, nurturing. Having said that, we also need to be sensitive to each other's needs for privacy, and personal time and to honor that without reservation or resentment.

I like a polite, playful man. This is thanks to my Dad. I enjoy the company of a man, their insight and the perspective they bring to life - lets face it - you do see things differently than women and that's what makes you so special.

I am happy, easygoing and spontaneous to do whatever strikes us in the moment. My health is great. I take good care of my body, my skin, and I think it shows. I'm not a lanky, tall babe; I'm more of a petite cute pixie (5' 3 1/2") with a great smile, dimples, and sparkling personality, or so I've been told.

If you're a sincere, caring gentleman who wants to be in a happy, fulfilling relationship with a great woman, please drop me a line.

You've read my profile, you've seen my picture. If that appeals to you, the next step is a date, in a setting that will allow us to talk and get to know each other. If you're spontaneous, this is a good opportunity to prove it.

Please don't ask me to "chat" on line or "text". If you want to find out more about me - a face to face meeting is the best way to get to know me.

Looking forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Self actualizing. Renovating my home. Tending my garden and my daughter's Puggle. Being happy and grateful that I have 1/2 a brain, two arms and a pretty good set legs that let me get around and live an amazing life!
I’m really good at
Having great common sense. Putting on a great dinner party.
Finding the good in things and people, and making the best of a bad situation. Finding solutions. Living in the moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Four Agreements, anything by James Paterson. Music is a must, love going to the movies, concerts and have been known to enjoy most live sports events........yes, for real!
The six things I could never do without
Sunshine
Fresh Air
The ability to laugh
Loosing my optimistic nature
My children, friends and family
Financial security
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out, sometimes have friends over and we cook, drink
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmm will have to think about this one
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 52–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you're interested in dating and hopefully a long term relationship.