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Ben-Mack

46 M Asheville, NC

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:29am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Me... imagine P.T. Barnum blended with R. Buckminster Fuller.

I'm looking for a woman who takes the Bill of Rights literally and the bible figuratively. For somebody with whom there is a spark, where we make each other laugh, and we look kindly on each other.

I tend to be an introvert, yet I will regularly put myself out there for art projects. Recently, I promoted the celebration of Peace Day on 9/21/13 and our efforts helped make #PeaceDay a trending topic for the first time.

I paid my way through UCLA as a magician. Then, I worked in advertising. Now, I'm a performing philosopher, a recovering advertising executive, a marketer, a lover, a friend and a bunch of labels. I'm an author with best-selling books across a few categories: Fire Eating, Cyber Punk and Marketing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Playing with folks who enjoy solving for R. Buckminster Fuller's parting challenge to humanity: "How do we make the world work for 100% of humanity, in the shortest possible time, through spontaneous cooperation, without ecological damage, or disadvantage to anyone?"

What would it look like to see an instance of global spontaneous cooperation, without ecological damage, or disadvantage to anyone?

And, if it happened once, might it happen again, and again, and again? I think so.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at theatrical magic, strategic planning, and on great days, writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that the first things people usually notice about me is that I listen actively and tell poignant and engaging stories.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: Cat's Cradle, Of Human Bondage, Ender's Game, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep, Past Watch, Poker Without Cards
Favorite movies: Wag The Dog, Gross Point Blank, Shawshank Redemption, Zero Effect, Rudy
Favorite shows: Life on Mars, Battlestar Gallaticca, Twilight Zone... um, I haven't owned a TV in over a decade.
Favorite music: Ben Harper, Regina Spektor, Amanda Palmer, Vermillion Lies, Pink Floyd, Eels, Jane's Addiction, Beatles
Favorite food: Sushi, Indian, Ethiopian, anything with cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Gratitude, Love, Meaning, Sense of Self... physical things... um, I've found I can do without most things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend less and less time thinking, and more and more time doing and simply being. I am reminded by R. Buckminster Fuller, “The things to do are: the things that need doing: that you see need to be done, and that no one else seems to see need to be done. Then you will conceive your own way of doing that which needs to be done — that no one else has told you to do or how to do it. This will bring out the real you that often gets buried inside a character that has acquired a superficial array of behaviors induced or imposed by others on the individual.”
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday or Monday, there isn't a typical night. When we play with magic, little is typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll tell you anything you want to know that I can tell.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You feel like meeting for coffee, taking a hike or seeing a movie at the Fine Art Theatre.