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Ben1976NC

38 M Hendersonville, NC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 19
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a thirtysomething who is looking for a relationship. I am a serious and private person who likes to have a good time. I have lived the last few years with a perpetual feeling of being on hold, that is to say, after a bad breakup, I've just looked forward to that next day off or that next movie or that next event that will temporarily make me happy, but now I'm seeking the long term stuff. I have a great sense of humor, great work ethic, great personality, and pretty great taste in food, film, music and friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Math and word problems. And useless trivia.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Gone Girl is the best novel I've read In a decade.
Movie: I can't wait to see August: Osage County
Music: The Smiths, Depeche Mode, Stevie Nicks, Robyn, New Order, Florence + the Machine
TV: Best dramas on right now: Homeland and Mad Men, best comedy: Happy Endings
Food: You name it, but extra affection for French and Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Baked potatoes
Tv
My underwear collection
My phone ( cliche I know, but I succumbed)
My job
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people don't message me back much on here. Be honest with me, am I ugly? Hideous even?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working. Or maybe at the movies. Or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love soap operas.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want make a great friend first, and then go from there.