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Ben32304

27 M Camp Lejeune, NC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Military
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some odds and ends about me:

I'm a recital and two classes shy of a degree in music composition, but it's honestly not worth the cost to finish.

I'm lethal with a Frisbee or some golf discs.

I have a burning curiosity for everything. I have the tendency to surf Wikipedia for hours.

I have a sharp palette for coffee, beer and whiskey. I will often delve into their histories and processes if conversation is held over them.

I seek spiritual enlightenment through the study of the world around us. It's amazing how much one can learn from just reading some books, mulling some thoughts and applying some logic.

I'm thru-hiking the 2100+ mile Appalachian Trail starting March 2016. I'm considering making it a barefoot trek.

I have a deep desire to study different languages. I'd like to be fluent in French, Arabic and Mandarin before I die. I'm also synthesizing a language based off of how natural languages form and behave.

I have extremely broad taste for just about anything from food to design to music. I accept just about anything that's well made.

Don't place Cheez-Its nearby me. I'm not a demonology expert, but I'm pretty sure something on a higher plain is happening when they're in my aura's proximity.

I have a Tumblr account: travelswithjarfly. It's really just a creative outlet. Expect anything from poetry to photography, but it's a good look down my own personal Rabbit-Hole.

I have a massive music library. It's over 60,000 tracks, and I guarantee I have some of your favorite music.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing what a Marine infantryman does. I'm also trying to keep my mind and sense of creativity sharp for future endeavors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and liking people, singing, and making a town look good with writing and photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have red hair and good posture.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books (well, let's throw some authors in there, too): J.R.R. Tolkien, Stephen King, Bill Bryson, Charles Dickens, Thomas Hardy, Leo Tolstoy, John Steinbeck, Robert Frost's Complete Works, Lone Survivor, music scores, Catch-22, Leaves of Grass, A Song of Ice and Fire

Movies: Star Wars IV-VI, the original Indiana Jones trilogy, anything by the Coen brothers, Sideways, High Fidelity, Terminator, 300, Top Gun, A Beautiful Mind, There Will Be Blood, Once, Gladiator, and anything by Wes Anderson.

Shows: Baseball, Football, SportsCenter, Game of Thrones, Weatherscan, Cops, Archer, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Seinfeld

Music: Eh, music is a good topic for a first date. I'll throw out some names, though: William Fitzsimmons, The Weepies, Ellie Goulding, Wye Oak, Boards of Canada, BT, MuteMath, Janelle Monae, Kraftwerk.

Food: Steak, shrimp, crab, lobster, coffee, beer, scotch, distilled water
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You know what would be a funny answer on your part? "Your wallet."

Water (both to drink and to be in), people, the occasional hearty meal, music, my cell phone and strong, healthy feet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My inner polylogue tends to hold debate sessions with itself about the nature of the universe. It also likes to sing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Smoking a hookah, writing or sketching something, being social or I'm online surfing ht3 intr4tub3z.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to collect those tiny syrup bottles one gets at Cracker Barrel with one's pancakes. I still have the collection in storage down in Pensacola.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can convince me I deserve the company of someone as wonderful as you. (Is your heart melting? Good.)