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Ben4224

28 / M / Straight / Single

New London, Connecticut

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:24pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 7″ (2.01m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a big goof......a bfg (big friendly giant).
I am always interested in meeting new friends and always looking for fun, "easy to get along with " people to hang out with after work.

I just moved to New London and I love the night life. Plenty of live music, bars, dancing, and places where you can have yourself an old fashioned hoot and a holler.

I love comedy, all aspects. I love making people laugh, i love stand-up, i love jokes, love it all.

I am a big fan of the ocean. I graduated with a marine Biology degree and spent many hours studying all of the ocean's critters. Volunteered at the Mystic aquarium for a couple years while i was in school, so if you ever have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.

If you were to find me at a Karaoke bar I would serenade you with Come Sail Away by Styx.

I am very family oriented. Nothing is more important to me than family. This was one of the deciding factors that resulted in my getting out of the marine biology field (that and i was stuck studying asian shore crabs and i hate crabs).

Manners are very important to me. I believe that gentlemen still exist and we aren't an African American Greek myth.

I am a big Sci Fi fan. I have a Star Wars tattoo on my ribs, but you would have to be a big fan to know what it is :p.

I am not trying to take okcupid too seriously for dating purposes, but rather as a way to meet possible new friends. Not saying that I don't want something to happen, but im also not crossing my fingers. Friendship is a way I would like a relationship to start.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently employed as a computer designer at Electric Boat but i moonlight as a world class bounty hunter (no catches yet, but you've got to start somewhere).
I’m really good at
Loving Life. I began to take things a bit too serious for a bit and found that it made life completely dull. There is nothing wrong with not having a plan.
Don't get me wrong, i have a career that I love and a direction I would like to go in the company, but when it comes to what to do after work, I just plug in my ipod and drive (and there's plenty of seats in my truck if anyone wants to join lol).
The first things people usually notice about me
That i am a giant. I always worry that people think im a monster, but again im all about making people laugh and having a good time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music:Set your Goals, The Bravery, Mewithoutyou, Attack Attack, Katatonia, Matthew Good Band, The Pixies, Meshuggah, Mastadon, Brand New, Millencolin, The Distillers, Shiny Toy Guns, Bjork, LAdyhawke, Metric, Crystal Castles, QotSA, Sean Price, Phoenix, The Methadones, The Flaming Lips, Passion Pit, Dead to Me, AFI, CKY, Built to Spill, Alkaline Trio, Tiesto!!!!, Polar Bear Club, Emarosa, Carcass, The Hives, The Strokes, The Killers, Death Cab for Cutie, The Postal Service, The Wombats, The Sleeping, The Subways, Swayzak, Modest Mouse, Sigur Ros, Decapitated, Behemoth, MGMT, and pretty much anything else that makes it so i can air drum my way to the top. I also tend to sing all of them out loud, so hopefully you wouldn't mind joining me.

Can't forget sleepless nights. Nothing better than drum and bass, its like ear crack and will keep you up for hours. :)!!

Movies: Star Wars!!!!!, American Psycho, Lucky #Slevin, Equilibrium, Braveheart, Garden State, Little miss Sunshine, Life Aquatic, Haggard, Wet Hot American Summer, Step Brothers, and many more. I have very few movies on the "i hated it" list, and i am always open to new suggestions.

Food: Thai, Indian, Sushi, BBQ, Seafood, and everything else on the menu :).
The six things I could never do without
1. Family (huge family man)
2. Friends
3. The World Wide Web (lots of interesting stuff out there)
4. Music
5. My Truck
6. Ill let you know when i find her :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I would like to go next. Took me a while but i recently got my passport and saw that i have tons of pages i need to get stamped :) .
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually out somewhere in New London. The night life here is great. Honestly it depends on my mood. Nothing wrong with staying in and being lazy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I tend to get super shy

OH!!! i am also deathly afraid of aliens and have no idea why (just the gray ones with the large black eyes).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you wonder what happened to Ace of Bass........WTF they were so sassy :)

But honestly just message me. I love new conversations!