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34 M Bettendorf, IA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:49pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My name is Ben . I have a 7 1/2 year old son . He is very well behaved , and I am so lucky to have such a loving and intelligent son. I am looking for a relationship that is going somewhere . I am not out for games. Be straight with me and I'll be straight with you. I will not tolerate racism or any bashing of anyone's sexual preference. I am straight , but I believe 100% in gay marriage. I believe everyone on this world has the right to be happy . Any questions for me feel free to ask. One question on question thing is wrong and won't let me fix it. I like kids lol. Would be bad if I didn't, being I have a son lol I am hoping to move to SoCal in the future.
What I’m doing with my life
I am working on becoming more successful and at the same time I am looking for someone to share life with.
I’m really good at
A lot of things . I think I am very diverse . So get to know me and find out for yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my intelligence or my sense of humor .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read . I have so many movies I am into from all different genre's . Ask and I can be more specific. As far as TV goes , I love the sitcoms from the 70's through about 2008. Law and Order SVU is my current show that I am addicted to. It's amazing and I just got into it recently. Yes, I do love food . Italian is probably my favorite. Update: Ellen is added to list. She is awesome and amazing.
The six things I could never do without
4)internet (phone or my pc)
5) Can't wait till I can add the sun and the Ocean to this list when I move to San Diego in the near future :)
6) Love (But that ties in to some of these others)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life in general mainly. How I can make a impact on myself and as well as other people in a positive way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Bowling league at moment
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a slight speech impediment . Sometimes it takes people weeks or months to notice that I stutter. I have a really good hold on it and tend to do alright . On a rare occasion I will have a bad day and stutter a bit more then usual. It's funny when someone doesn't notice for a few months.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
1) Your not out for games
2) Enjoy a good conversation
3) Your looking for more then just a online conversation and your wanting to see where things can go.
4) If you want to be happy and treated right .
5) If your ready to give you all and your not the type that will give up easily when you do find someone.