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BenActn2

32 Los Angeles, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an actor-writer-director who loves stage, screen, music, poetry, and art of all kinds. I'm an atheist/humanist with great respect for the messages at the heart of all religion (I love Joseph Campbell's work, if that means anything to you). I like to over analyze things almost as much as I like to relax and not worry about it. I like to lead and I like to play along. Overall - life's short and there's a lot left to experience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most of the time I find myself trapped in the past, and driven by an unknown force to change history for the better. And so I find myself leaping from life to life, striving to put right what once went wrong, and hoping each time that my next leap will be the leap home.

Also, I studied film in school, I love to write.

I've been building my portfolio in all the fields that interest me. Enjoying the work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Human behavior, analysis, imagination, clarity of creative vision, Lumosity.com, Critical thinking, and a few more personal skills which I'll withhold for now for propriety's sake.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voice, my laugh, my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(These are in no way comprehensive lists...)

BOOKS: The Hero with a Thousand Faces, The Tao of Pooh, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Catch-22, Harry Potter, Hollywood (Bukowski), A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, Man and His Symbols, The Phantom Tollbooth, Joseph Campbell's The Masks of God series, Into the Wild, and more...

GRAPHIC NOVELS/COMICS: Sandman, The Watchmen, Preacher, Dark Knight Returns, Walking Dead, Bone, Y: The Last Man, Kingdom Come, Blankets, Transmetropolitan, and more...

MUSIC: Andrew Bird, Geographer, Modest Mouse, The Flaming Lips, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Abandoned Pools, Miyavi, Ben Folds, Cake, Dave Matthews Band, Counting Crows, Depeche Mode, Led Zeppelin, Weezer, Sting, Tegan and Sara, Pink Floyd, Aphex Twin, BNL (yes, "BNL") etc...

MOVIES: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Knocked Up, Toy Story, Serenity, Natural Born Killers, Coraline, Superman The Movie, Batman Begins, Boogie Nights, Magnolia, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Disney's Robin Hood, Adaptation, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Back to the Future, Teen Wolf, Children of Men, Tideland, 12 Monkeys, Serenity, I Heart Huckabees, Pi, American Beauty, Henry Fool, Fay Grimm, House of Yes, Best In Show, Network, The Dark Crystal, Monty Python's Life of Brian, and so many more...

TV SHOWS: Doctor Who, Freaks and Geeks, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Firefly, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, The West Wing, Once Upon a Time, Brooklyn Nine Nine, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Quantum Leap (yeah, that's right), Popular, Clone High, The Venture Brothers, Misfits, Californication, Dexter ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd like to think that there's nothing that I couldn't do without. Nothing tangible, that is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I avoid "typical" whenever possible, but I'm often at home writing, at the gym, or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been single for a long time. Partly because I'm busy, partly because I'm picky, and partly because the act of pursuing women has gone sour for me over the years, seeming at once both predatory and childish. I find it off-putting to even witness. But there's no arguing with chemistry. I just haven't really felt it in a while. At least, sadly, not with anyone single. So here's hoping the OKC algorithms will help to narrow the field.
You should message me if
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you'd like. I'm always interested in meeting new people and seeing how it goes.