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29 Redmond, WA Man


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  • Ages 25–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Midwest transplant to Seattle 8 years ago. Two sisters, supremely healthy family relationships, cat AND dog lover, absolutely fantastic with animals, in love with challenge and growth, and have plenty of ambition.

Words about my by a friend:

"Ben likes to use really big words that the majority of the population doesn't know the definition of... He will talk for hours if you don't stop him so if you're not interested change the subject. He's aware of this so he won't be offended.
"What Ben won't admit this but he LOVES Taylor Swift. He thinks she's the best singer ever. Way better then Mumford and Sons."
- N.C.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm getting into the best shape of my life having discovered the joys of both strength training and diet management. And for the first time in many, many years, I'm reading fiction. I last read "A River Runs Through it," and cried at the end. It was beautiful and touching.

I'm a founder at a video game startup, prior to our first product's launch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Here are some of the more "trivia-like" things I can do. I can solve a Rubik's cube. With a piece of paper I can fold any number of concoctions, and with 30 pieces of paper I can construct intricate 3D patterned structures. I can make the hell out of a sandwich, and eat effectively on a budget for months. I can juggle, swordfight, fell a tree, climb a tree, and get a grueling full-body workout in 30 minutes in my home with no equipment. I have a uniquely pretty whistle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Work in progress!

Anything by Neil Gaiman and especially The Sandman graphic novels. Read a lot of Terry Pratchett back in the day. Love me some good nonfiction, especially Malcolm Gladwell (Blink, The Tipping Point), and The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin.

Movie favorites:
Pan's Labyrinth, The Incredibles, The Avengers, Frozen.....

- House of Cards, The Fall (this is like BBC's True Detective, and it it fucking phenomenal), Doctor Who, Firefly/Buffy/etc., Forever, Archer, Suits, Game of Thrones, Cosmos, Orphan Black, Parks and Rec, Bob's Burgers, West wing....

- (Decemberists, Mumford and Sons, Mountain Goats), (Kanye, Eminem), (Lady Gaga, Kesha, Taylor Swift), (Dream Theater, Coheed and Cambria), Wax Fang, various a cappella, and whatever cool ass shit someone's introduced me to recently.

- Definitely most things. Savory > sweet.

Hearthstone, Settlers of Catan, Cards Against Humanity, Dominion, Go, Chess, Magic, D&D, Starcraft II, Civ IV & V, poker. Not to exclude Final Fantasy, Halo, and Need for Speed for their nostalgia value.

Vlog: Vi Hart

Podcast: Welcome to Night Vale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
One part myself and one part the people in my life - their lives, their happiness, their problems, their concerns. I derive great joy from being a helpful and positive force in the lives of people I care about, and it's common for me to reach out to someone a day or three after a deep RealTalk session to say "Hey, I've been thinking, and I have more insight. Can you talk?" This is warmth, to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to watch Netflix. I'm in for grabbing a beer, especially with friends. When I need downtime I'll stay in, and I'm very good at knowing when I need downtime. But when I'm out with friends I bias heavily toward good conversation and/or new experiences.
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You appreciated the way I write, and you feel like you know me a bit having read this. That, or you know a tree that really needs climbing.

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