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BenInKennesaw

23 / M / straight / Single

Kennesaw, Georgia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English

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I am a book nerd, under-expressed, and a music junkie.

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My Self-Summary

A waste of too much intelect, and not enough motivation. Dedication to my loved ones, friends and family alike. Obsessed with music; old, new, anything that's good. I love to interpret authors through thier works. It's like a mapping of thier mind, of thier imagination. I enjoy the understated things, appreciating them when no one else notices.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently supporting my mother who has lukemia. I'm not trying for a sob story. I don't need your condolances, it won't change anything. I work for a living as a cook. Constantly being underpaid, but who isn't now a days? I yearn just to get away. But i'd hate to leave those that i cherish. Sometimes i feel like i'm tied here. I refuse to leave my mom in a bad situation. So i'm here untill that changes.

I’m really good at

Being brutally honest. Sometimes i do it to myself, and catch truths i didn't realize. Or am trying to avoid. Really good at seeing the brighter side. Granted the brighter side isn't always sunshine and flowers, but it's always better than some alternatives.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Certified book nerd, and Music junkie. Movies are cool, i have my favorites, But not as personal as a book. Food however i currently detest. I work as a cook, so i always see food. I always see food, so i never get hungry, so the only time when i eat is when i get sharp pains killing me. I don't eat because i enjoy it. I actually loathe the way that food is consumed. It's kinda disgusting. I only eat out of necessity. And i hate myself everytime.

The six things I could never do without

1. Logic -I pride myself on being a rational person. I use my logic to make it so. When i can't understand actions of others it bothers me, thier lack of logic.
2. Music -Music is humanity in art.
3. Insanity -Sometimes you just have to break loose.
4. Self-Hatred -Sometimes you gotta throw yourself to the wolves to understand just how nice we have it. And then regret your actions.
5. Being ridiculous -Sometimes... you just have to.
6. Coffee -Sometimes you just need a hot beverage to lubricate your thoughts into words. And the caffine to let those words escape. Stop the censureship that your logic sometimes causes. Let them flow free. Sometimes you give yourself insight by not blocking those thoughts/words. Right or wrong, those words are your own and you can't hate them. They are you.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Anything in the future that i don't know about. Which is a lot. Keeps my free time pretty occupied.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going to bed early... Work in the morning. LAME!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Sometimes i embrace the thought of going crazy. Sometimes it even puts a smile on my face.

You should message me if

You're interested. You won't know untill you check it out.

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