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34 La Mesa, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:38pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am compelled to try new Root Beer and Ginger Ale. I own a sousaphone, and I should polish it more often, but it is in good repair. I read voraciously and I'm always happy to discover a new author I enjoy. I occasionally get excited enough about the prospect of a peanut butter sandwich to chant a little song while making it. Mysterious Galaxies is my favorite bookstore and if you like mystery, science fiction, or fantasy, I heartily recommend checking it out.

I'm Jewish. Mostly culturally, I don't really believe in G-d, but I like going to synagogue now and then. I observe the fast of Yom Kippur and the fast of the first born son, even if I don't go to services. Judaism is part of my heritage and it's not something I'm looking to give up, even though it isn't my faith. Really, if people didn't have fun following entirely arbitrary rules now and then, why do we have games like Simon Says and Red Light Green light? I do pick and choose- There's a lot of misogyny that I don't want to see perpetuated to future generations, but other traditions are good fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing the tuba, when I practice, which isn't nearly enough. I could be much better.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is that I'm not a complete jackass. It's on my label. I'm no more than 75% jackass by volume. (This statement has yet to be evaluated by the FDA. No, I don't know why I'm regulated by the FDA.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a lot of books that I like. Most are Science Fiction or Fantasy, preferably with a humorous edge.

For movies, if it has the Muppets, there's a good chance I enjoy it. Groundhogs Day is probably my favorite Holiday movie. And True Stories will always be a bit of childhood nostalgia for me.

Shows: Daily Show, Colbert Report, and the Maddow Show.

Music: They Might be Giants, Suzanne Vega, Liz Phair, Talking Heads, Paul Simon, Indigo Girls, also most things a good high school symphonic band might play, such as Holst, Gershwin, Copeland, etc.

Food: I prefer to eat foods that have not been boiled. I just don't really enjoy the texture of most boiled foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm assuming this doesn't include the 5 things all animal life needs (shelter, oxygen, food, water, and surprise)
Science Fiction/Fantasy - and I'm counting that as one, just like the book stores.
Paper and Pencil (or something to approximate paper and pencil).
Friends or acquaintances.
Clothing, I can do without shoes now and then, but I definitely need clothes. I sunburn far too easily to go without.
A watch. I feel kind of naked without mine.
Peanut Butter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What problems are new, what problems are old but exacerbated by new technologies and media, and what problems are old but seem new to me because priot to new technologies and media, I was unaware of them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no idea how to define a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I'm feeling a little down I like to browse OKCupid to remind myself that there are a lot of awesome people who are single.
You should message me if
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you would like to talk to me. If you have an argument to present about something I've written to explain my answers to and of the questions. If you have a Root Beer or Ginger Ale to recommend.

I'm looking for a friend. A person I can trade books with. Someone to talk with, about news of the day, food, anything at all, maybe nothing. Games are a natural part of conversation, she appreciates alliteration and assonance. She's lethally clever, maybe dangerous in other ways too, I don't know.

Someone to bounce ideas off of, to create worlds with, to explore with, even if said exploring doesn't involve leaving the house.