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Ben_in_DC

26 Durham, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I grew up in Durham, NC. I live with 7 others in a group house that has become a pretty gratifying part of my life over the last few years. We host house shows and performing artists from time to time.

I value self sufficiency and learning how to fix/build/grow/cook/brew/create stuff. I worked on progressive campaigns for the last two years, now working at HUD and on a local affordable housing campaign.

I place a lot of value in communication in my relationships, intimate or otherwise. I'm into creative types, writing, books, poetry, films, music, hiking, bike touring, traveling, dumpster diving, good radio, being an uncle, and imagining having a dog.

I'm an ENFP Myers-Briggs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favs are A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again and DFW in general, Tenth of December and everything George Saunders, poems of Walt Whitman, Burn Collector, Written On the Body, Collected Stories of Philip K Dick, Tropic of Cancer, Slaughterhouse Five, Dune, Neuromancer.

Tom Waits, Elliott Smith, the Microphones, the Be Good Tanyas, Megafaun, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Karen O, Sleater-Kinney and everything Carrie Brownstein, the Mountain Goats, Megafaun, Sonic Youth, Kendrick Lamar, Arthur Russell, the Band.

Everything Jim Jarmusch, Don Hertzfeldt, Woody Allen, Kelly Reichardt. Down By Law, Stranger than Paradise, Coffee and Cigarettes, Annie Hall, the Wild Blue Yonder, Blade Runner, Spirited Away, Eraserhead, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Brazil, Moon, Old Joy, Wendy and Lucy.

I don't have a tv but I do watch a handful of shows. Favorite is Louie. Also Black Mirror! And Fishing with John.

Also like good radio and podcasts. WTF with Marc Maron, the Best Show on WFMU, Radiolab, this American Life etc etc.
The six things I could never do without
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six things that I love are: nature, pour over coffee in the morning, community, friends and family, traveling, and good books/music/film.
You should message me if
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you'd like to.

I dont use this site much but I check messages and am generally open to grab coffee. Hmu!