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Ben_in_DC

26 Durham, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:08pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Here are some things about me:

I grew up in Durham, NC... I live with 7 friends in a group house that has become a pretty gratifying part of my life over the last few years... we host house shows and sometimes other kinds of perf artists and have shows coming up on NYE, 1/10, 1/12, 1/23, and 2/13.

I worked on various lefty political campaigns for the last two years, I'm now working at HUD and on a local affordable housing campaign... I value self sufficiency and learning how to fix/build/cook/brew/create stuff.

I place a lot of value in communication in my relationships, intimate or otherwise... I love great books, writing, hiking/biking, dig poorly planned travel, bonfires, being an uncle, imagining having a dog, and creative types.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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written on the body, neuromancer, a supposedly fun thing i'll never do again and DFW in general, tenth of december and everything george saunders, freedom, collected stories of philip k dick, burn collector, tropic of cancer, slaughterhouse five, a homage to catalunya, where the wild things are.

bikini kill, sleater-kinney/carrie brownstein in general, parquet courts, speedy ortiz, the be good tanyas, yeah yeah yeahs, deerhoof, the talking heads, the mountain goats, tom waits, elliott smith, the microphones, sonic youth, neutral milk hotel, the avett brothers, the band, priests, a lot of localer bands and stuff on orchid tapes/exploding in sound/k records etc.

BOYHOOD, badlands, annie hall, blade runner, spirited away, eraserhead, her, into the wild blue yonder, coffee and cigarettes, wanted man, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, brazil, moon, old joy, wendy and lucy, room 237, where the wild things are.

Love the show Louie. Also podcasts! WTF with Marc Maron, the Best Show on WFMU, Radiolab, this American Life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
six things that are important to me are: community, people I care about, coffee at dawn, fire after dusk, my bike, & books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my long term goals, my fleeting desires, my potatoes that are sprouting again god damn it.
You should message me if
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you'd like to.

I dont use this site much but I check messages and am generally open for a casual meet up. Hmu!