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Ben_in_DC

26 Durham, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I grew up in Durham, NC. I live with 7 others in a group house that has become a pretty gratifying part of my life over the last few years. We host house shows and performing artists from time to time.

I value self sufficiency and learning how to fix/build/grow/cook/brew/create stuff. I worked on progressive campaigns for the last two years, now working at HUD and on a local affordable housing campaign.

I place a lot of value in communication in my relationships, intimate or otherwise. I'm into creative types, good music, books, films, hiking, bike touring, dumpster diving, traveling, good radio, being an uncle, and imagining having a dog.

I'm an ENFP Myers-Briggs, close to an ESFP.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my fav books are Written On the Body, A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again and DFW in general, Tenth of December and everything George Saunders, Collected Stories of Philip K Dick, Tropic of Cancer, Slaughterhouse Five, Dune, Neuromancer, Burn Collector.

Tom Waits, Elliott Smith, Sleater-Kinney and everything Carrie Brownstein, the Mountain Goats, Kendrick Lamar, Run the Jewels, Sonic Youth, Parquet Courts, Arthur Russell, the Be Good Tanyas, Megafaun, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Karen O, Pavement, the Band.

Down By Law, Stranger than Paradise, Coffee and Cigarettes and everything Jim Jarmusch, Annie Hall and everything Woody Allen, Blade Runner, Spirited Away, Eraserhead, Fishing with John, Her, The Wild Blue Yonder, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Brazil, Moon, Old Joy, Wendy and Lucy, Room 237, Where the Wild Things Are.

I don't have a tv but I do watch a handful of shows. Favorite is Louie. Twin Peaks is great too. And Fishing with John.

Also love good radio and podcasts! WTF with Marc Maron, the Best Show on WFMU, Radiolab, this American Life etc.
The six things I could never do without
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six things that I love are: nature, a hot mug of coffee in the morning, fires at night, people I care about, traveling, and good books/music/film.
You should message me if
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you'd like to. Or if you also like geeking out to some far out cyber punk shit I have only just BEGUN to get into Miyazaki.

I dont use this site much but I check messages and am generally open for a casual meet up. Hmu!