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45 M San Francisco, CA

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  • Ages 25–43
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:55pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a Russian-Jewish Puerto Rican Irish German American from NYC, in SF for 17 years now. Went to art school in undergrad, entered as a painting major, left as a sculpture major, stopped doing visual artwork pretty much. Recently finished a MFA program in Electronic Music at Mills. Most of my family are/were painters and/or educators.
What I’m doing with my life
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Good question, I guess the answer is a work in progress. For $ I hawk bourgie booze and walk cute dogs. These take place within a 8 block radius of my home, this fact alone, besides that I'm enjoying the jobs themselves, makes me happy, prior I have not had a job in SF proper since the 90s, and I'm sick of commutes. I also work as a projectionist in a movie theatre in Berkeley. Within the past year I've also been an adjunct audio teacher and landscaper/gardener. I'm happy trying different things presently. I had been an audio engineer for 10 years at the same business, I'm glad recording audio now is about art & joy rather than corporate events. For pleasure I perform and record regularly, It's "weird" music, sometimes called New Music, sometimes avant-garde, or sound art, blah blah blah, but most often, it's probably called noise. I won't be offended if you don't like it and I do not expect you to understand it, but if you do, well then, hey. I write essays about music and/or film, sometimes they get published, like in this CD box set: . For entertainment I love film, dance, live music, and museums. Sitting 'round with a gaggle of friends shooting the shit over beers strangely never gets old.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, drawing. Have a good working knowledge of music, film and art history. Developing an understanding of local wine, beer & spirits.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes, quietness, hands, clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Confessions of Zeno, The Lathe of Heaven, The Circus of Dr. Lao, Hunger, A Canticle for Leibowitz. Jim Thompson & Nathanael West's novels, C. S. Lewis's space trilogy (no, I'm not Christian). A ton of art/music/film critical texts, biographies and historical non fiction.

Possession (1981), Female Convict Scorpion: Jailhouse 41, Rock N Roll High School, In a Year with 13 Moons, Hausu, Cul-de-Sac, Vampyr, Whitey, A Clockwork Orange, The Warriors, Zardoz, Spirit of the Beehive, Targets, The Tenant, The Naked Kiss, The Ruling Class, Pound, Bone, Martin, McCabe & Mrs. Miller, Dawn of the Dead (orig.), The Servant, The Music Lovers, Mahler, Heaven and Earth Magic, The Boyfriend, The Conversation, The Night Porter, Nosferatu (both versions), The Enigma of Kaspar Hauser, Eraserhead, 3 Women, Desperate Living, Shaolin Drunkard

Roxy Music, Japan, Pere Ubu, Popol Vuh, The Associates, King Crimson, Sparks, Gilberto Gil, Cocteau Twins, György Ligeti, Gorky's Zygotic Mynci, Felt, Raymond Scott, Syd Barrett, Wire, Joe Meek, Karlheinz Stockhausen, Incredible String Band, Six Organs Of Admittance, Robert Fripp, Don Cherry, Joan La Barbara, Echo & The Bunnymen, Richard Youngs, Slapp Happy, ZNR, Soft Machine, Faust, The High Llamas, Conrad Schnitzler, Hawkwind, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Laurie Anderson, Kraftwerk, The Who, Eno, Shirley & Dolly Collins, The Comedian Harmonists, OOIOO, Clarence "Tom" Ashley, Cluster, Pelt, Caetano Veloso, Autobody, Talking Heads, Carla Bozulich, Yoko Ono, Colleen, Roy Smeck's Tropical Serenaders, Young Marble Giants, Dymaxion, Double U, The Shaggs, Arvo Pärt, The Ex & Tom Cora, Slapp Happy, Henry Cow, Terry Riley, Heldon, Tod Dockstader, After Dinner, Taj Mahal Travellers, Carl Stalling, Mars, Mississippi John Hurt, David Thomas And Two Pale Boys, Drumhead, The Fiery Furnaces, David S. Ware, Nico, Harry Partch, The Moles, Dr. Strangely Strange, Nino Rota, Mr. Airplane Man, Clara Rockmore, Hans Edler, The New Lost City Ramblers, Klaus Schulze, Comets On Fire, Mutantes, Metal Boys, Weekend, Boredoms, Autonervous, Ilitch, The Dead Science, Iasos, Buzzcocks, OMD, Sunn 0))), Gal Costa, Stereolab, Moondog, Ornette Coleman, theme to "Are You Being Served", Snakefinger, Stars Of The Lid, Tim Buckley, Slumber Party, Sound Factory, Tin Tin, Thee Bros. Gibb, The Residents, Teenage Jesus & The Jerks, Ronnie Von, Kate Bush, William Basinski, Buttons, Otomo Yoshihide's New Jazz Orchestra, Fela Kuti, Tom Waits, Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers, Sun City Girls, Broadcast, Acid Mothers Temple & The Melting Paraiso U.F.O., Swell Maps, Centipede, The Velvet Underground, Yes, Desmond Leslie, The Slits, The Kinks, Talking Heads, Steely Dan, Ravi Shankar, Neil Young & Crazy Horse, Q'65, Die Knödel, Fred Astaire, Eric Dolphy, Art Ensemble Of Chicago, Devo, David Bowie, Volcano The Bear, Circle, Spirit, Jennifer Gentle, Gene Clark, Roy Harper, Pearls Before Swine, DNA, Black Dice, Squinchy and the Dofoes, Cobra Killer, Sol K. Bright's Hollywaiians, Band Of Mercy & Salvation, The Carter Family, Public Enemy, Bill & Belle Reed, Scientist, This Mortal Coil, Bob Wills & His Texas Playboys, Chris Watson, Tibetan Buddhist chants, Dock Boggs, Igor Wakhevitch, The Cardiacs, Angus Maclise, The Raincoats, Vincent Gallo, Toru Takemitsu, Love, Cornelius Cardew and The Scratch Orch., LiLiPUT/Kleenex, The Pretty Things, Harmonia, Delia Gonzalez & Gavin Russom, Albert Ayler, Peer Raben, Louis + Bebe Barron, Bruce Haack, Confusional Quartet, Essential Logic, Can, Ruth, Captain Beefheart & The Magic Band, The (Hypothetical Prophets), :Zoviet*France:, Alice Coltrane, Alvin Lucier, Henry Flynt, Achim Reichel & Machines.... and on and on and on...

I don't have a TV, but have enjoyed these shows:
Strangers With Candy
The Kingdom
Pennies From Heaven

I try to stay away from excessive meat & dairy and processed foods, but, moderation in all things including moderation. I feel it's hard to get a bad meal in this town, if I ever move away I will miss it's food and music, but I DO miss the Eastern European food of NYC.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh, good produce.
Music, swimmimg, biking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...future and past and how I should be thinking more about the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Living in the Mission for 17 years, I kinda give up on going out in my neighborhood on Friday night, but sometimes do. A trip to the movies, a drink or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A sophisticated snob with a Neanderthal inside who thinks that the 1982 version of Cat People is a classy movie.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a clawfoot tub. Joking. Kinda... but really what's the worst that could happen, broken hearts and a crushed ego? I know you eat that stuff for bfast.