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35 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am going to change up this section after a recent events in my life. On why back to city from saying good goodbye to grandmother who is slowing dying in Florida, the woman who was setting in the seat right behind me died on the flight from a heart attack. The combination has given me new perspective
on my life and made me rearrange my priorities. Life is too short not to do things that makes you happy. I am looking for people to spend time with and find fun/trouble/laughs and find new perspectives on live and love with.

Below are my personal highlights. What can I say, I like lists :)

* a good listener
* a great cook
* a problem solver
* not a master of the written English language
* a loyal friend and partner
* self reflective
* a cheesy romantic at times
* just found out that I am INFJ on the Jung Briggs Myers test. Not sure if that means anything yet. If you know anything about it, please let me know.
* more organized that I come across
* I am NOT photogenic at all
* I am a slow walker

I love the following things in no particular order

* completing a goal that I have set for myself
* the smell of bacon and coffee in the morning
* the feeling you get after a long run
* the smile my niece gives me
* pork chops
* cold beer
* yelling at the Tv when the Giants or 49ers are playing
What I’m doing with my life
By day working as a project manager at a start up out in the East Bay, by night looking for a good bike race to train for (got any suggestions?).
I’m really good at
I really good at : cooking, listening, making people laugh, problem solving, snow boarding, being on time, photography, telling which song is playing on the juke box within two notes, hosting a dinner party, answering random pub quiz questions, and over thinking things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
favorite books: fight club, naked,
movies: fight club, swingers, american beauty, the the darjeeling limited, the lost boys,
music: the doors, janes addiction, pixies, stone roes, jeff buckley,
tv: arrested development, the simpsons, sopranos, entourage, californiacation, dexter, night court,
The six things I could never do without
- my cell phone
- my beanie
- my family
- access to good food
- my morning coffee
- my bike(s)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What should I make for dinner, why the Giants might not ever go back to the play offs until the finish paying Barry Zito... and how to cook a mean pork chop.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either out with friends at a bar or chilling at home watching a movie or watching the Giants game on the telly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A few months ago, while waiting for my burrito to be ready at my local burrito shop (I had two cell phones in my pocket at the time) and a phone rang in my pocket. I picked up and all I could hear was background noise and could not figure out who called me by the number until I called the number back and pocket begone to ring... I am such a dork at times!

that and I'm a Michael Bolton fan.... I celebrate the man's entire catalog... I hope you know I am kidding on this one.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are funny, smart, and if you enjoy a home cooked meal.If you laugh at hipsters and think skinny jeans on men look effeminate. Bonus points if you are a redhead. Double bonus points if you own road bike and want to go for a ride with me sometime.

If you would have to think about the question " would you rather give up oral sex or cheese for the rest of your life which one you choose" for more than second but still end up choosing the later.

****Disclaimer****Not to say that I am only attracted to redheads, fair from it but I wanted to be honest and state what catches my eye in a crowd. This a kin to some woman stating " I like tall men because I wear heels and I like to look up at my man."