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28 Fredericksburg, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 10, 2014
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, and very serious about it
Working on two-year college
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have 23 pairs of chromosomes... Yeah, I'll fill this out eventually. Until then, enjoy imagining that you're reading a soliloquy from a Beach Vole or something.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I'm in the process of writing and rewriting witty and intriguing personal essays. Overall, I just started community college and will be pursing a degree in mechanical engineering and globaL domination.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being awkward. Seriously, I make coffee nervous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea; that I'm a male?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I have two favorite genres. Mostly, I read science-fiction. I would highly recommend the Vorkosigan Saga.

Movies: To date, I have not seen a movie more captivating than "Children of Men."

Shows: I don't really keep up with TV that much. The current shows I like are "Suits" and "Switched at Birth."

Music: Yes

Food: I enjoy the food I cook far more than anything I could just buy. Mostly, it's the satisfaction of the work and planning that goes into it. I mostly draw recipes from Cook's Illustrated, Cooking for Engineers, and a smattering of food blogs. It's the geeky, scientific aspect that draws me in.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My friends
-Ballroom dancing
-A well stocked kitchen
-Arbitrary rules and social standards that I can break.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...Oh! Shinny!

...Wait. What?

My mind is a constant stream of abstract thought. There is no end; there is no rest. I am always thinking about anything and everything. Usually, it's about making connections or how to do something more efficiently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... taking a ballroom dance lesson, reading, and doing whatever strikes my fancy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...and make it no longer private: I like musicals... There, I'm out.
...Okay, maybe we're searching for something deeper?

I degraded the modifier to my religion to "and somewhat serious about it." I got tired of being taunted by "and very serious about it." I go to church, I have strong feelings about faith, but I fail at living it out. I felt it was a lie to say something I didn't agree with.

Maybe that's laying my cupboards a little too bare, but. I can't do anything to improve it until I can be honest about it.

Update 6/8/2013: I have totally improved it. :)

I was stagnant for a bit, but I am definitely about chasing after God.