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Benjammin11

26 M Woodside, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Compulsively honest, emotionally adventurous, an aggressively hopeful cynic. I am a person who tries very hard to become better and less wrong. I prefer to listen before I speak.

I believe in empowerment of women in the workplace and discarding gender norms. Probability is the closest thing I have to a god, and I reject the idea of universal morality.

I practice ethical non-monogamy. I try to give more than I take, and my ideal self is a person who is compassionate when under stress, and courageous when afraid.
What I’m doing with my life
Moved to NYC to take over the world two years ago:

Part 1 of this plan involves reducing the city's carbon footprint by saving money on other people's energy bills.
Part 2 will involve molding younger engineers into my image, fostering creativity and competence
Part 3 will consist of changing the energy industry for the betterment of society using the army of tech savvy kids I've taught.
Part 4 will be when I retire early and become a nudist in some place weird like Rhode Island or Arizona.
Part 5 - Wait, what happened?
Part 6 - Power???
I’m really good at
Saying the right things, saying the wrong things, hiking, eating, making eggs, and taking board games wayyyy too seriously.

I'm kind of obsessed with Go right now. (AKA Weiqi Baduk Igo)
The first things people usually notice about me
Long hair, and how I read some things sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Mostly nonfiction and essays. Books about psychology and sociology. Currently reading "Lean In" and "The Art of War"
Movies: Dark comedies, documentaries, beautiful and sad stories
Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Adventure Time
Music: Opeth, Stephen Wilson, Folk Metal, Explosions in the Sky
Food: Sandwiches, Gatorade, granola
Radio: This American Life, Planet Money, NPR Stuff, and Ted Talks if that's related somehow.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Corporate culture and if I can ever accept it
Ethical non-monogamy

Why do women usually seek men that are older than them? This is no fair. I don't want to date a 22 year old. Ew.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been told I'm not really ashamed about very much.

I'm not terribly vanilla, although I'm also not terribly experienced with kink either.

Uhhh, I also write some erotic short fiction from time to time.

For the sake of tags: poly, polyamorous, polyamory, non monogamy, non-monogamy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you like being physically active or like the idea of just walking around and talking as a date

you're okay with the idea that I'm probably not going to be attracted to you within 4 hours of meeting you. It comes much more naturally with time.

you embrace some form of polyamory / non monogamy

you can answer this question:
If you could pick one super power, flying or invisibility, which would you pick, and why?