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Benjwa

37 M Norfolk, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Not too fond of this exercise. I'm not sure what that says about me but maybe that qualifies as a self-summary?
What I’m doing with my life
Well, if you reading this, there could be, at most, a peripheral interest. So instead of me putting it here, you're welcome to find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
must be my red hair. Or my inability to speak about myself in the format provided by this dating site.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book is Catch-22.

Favorite movie is probably Down by Law.

My favorite food is seasonal.

Music tends to be of the electronic variety but I've certainly done my time in the indie world. The Pacific Northwest tends to do that to a person. My potential favorite show could be seeing Modest Mouse at the Crystal Ballroom in Portland. Also dig Country, Folk, never bluegrass (just like swing, the late '90s oversaturated the shit out of this music), Soul, Funk, even soft/lite rock.
The six things I could never do without
you, once I get to know you and develop an unbreakable bond. Me, once I realize that trifles like immediate gratification through base desires gets me further away from my next 'do-without': inner focus. Towards what? Towards something that breathes the zeal for life in any and all people. What is that something? Again, you, for teaching me what that is. Then, to finish, a cup of coffee overlooking a gnarled coastline with gray-filled sky as a backdrop, waiting for others to wake.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
, at the moment, filling out these boxes with interesting and self-identifiable bits of who it is that I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging, but if it's a non-typical Friday such as Friday the 13th, you best believe I'm frightened.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
can be accessed by hacking this site.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you so feel the urge.