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BenlyBen

25 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I have now stopped caring about my initial message to people.
I now come on here to send as many messages to people as quickly as I can, I feel it's a more honest representation of myself.

You are most likely looking at my profile and judging me based on a mustache I don't have. I don't own a camera and I am ashamed of you for your judgment.

If you don't want to be my friend, reply with a quick message, here I'll make it easy,
"Dear Ben, I don't want to be your friend" <---- copy and paste.
Otherwise I will put you down on the list of people that I will exile when I take over the west coast.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to become a software engineer.
Doing things that will become fun stories to tell.
I’m really good at
Baking
Diffusing bad situations
Listening
Explaining my logic in a way that people can understand
Making jokes that go over peoples head
I think I'm good at singing
Making friends, even when I don't want to
Dancing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Sojourn, computing and algorithms, enders game, 1984... I'm such a picky reader.

Movies:
500 days of Summer, the Room, paper moon, spinal tap

Shows:
Sea lab 2020, 1990's batman cartoon, the 11th Dr., Breaking Bad, sword art online, cowboy bebop.

Music:
Drudkh, Swans, The Xx, Tegan and Sara, Amon Amarth, Blackbird Raum, Deer Tick, Hank Williams the 3rd, Leftover crack, daughter, sage francis, eyedea and abilities, Sea Wolf, The Tallest Man on Earth, City and color, Middle Brother, Wayne Hancock, Man Man.

Food:
Vogels bread with vegemite, butter, and avocado.
The six things I could never do without
Assuming I have shelter, food, water, air, light, and all the other things necessary for survival:

Music, friends to keep me sane, clothes, cigarettes, dancing, free time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Different scenarios playing out in my head. Also, deep deep thoughts of life and shit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Walking around looking at people or hanging out with friends, dancing maybe.

At pretty much any given moment after 10pm on a weeknight however, I'm listening to rainymood and doing lines of code.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm cooler than you. It's ok, we can still be friends.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
-you feel like it, honestly, the worst that will happen is I won't reply for a couple of days. I will reply eventually though.

-you want to grab coffee/tea/beer, hangout, etc.
So far, everyone I've met from here has been pretty cool.