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Bentham

31 Columbus, GA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 5, 2012
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a student of the Universe who is looking for a partner. Integrity, consideration, and forthright communication are a must. A large part of my life is devoted to the study of and conformation to the self-evident Truth, which is God. I am not religious, but I believe that the Universe is alive. I have come to realise that I cannot partner myself with just anyone. I need someone who shares this same focus of spiritual love. There is no other option for me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a student at Columbus State University. I work as a web developer for a local business. I spend a lot of time thinking. Of all things, I'm best at thinking. I don't tend to read for pleasure. I primarily enjoy activities that are intellectually stimulating and pleasure reading is rarely good for that. I'm a formal student of psychology and philosophy, and an informal student of everything else in existence.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at analytical thinking. I study philosophy (including formal logic), psychology, and physics, because that's what I enjoy. I'm good at debates. I'm critical and understanding, often offensive, and always rational. I've studied things such as hypnosis, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and various other open approaches to the functioning of the mind.

I'm very good at sex, but I can no longer tolerate the ridiculously unbalanced experiences that I've had. I need a woman who sees sex as being a spiritual act of bonding and affection which should never be controlled nor manipulated. Sex should be a beautiful expression of Oneness and each partner should work as hard as they can for the other. I am so tired of lazy, "quicky" sex that seems to amount to nothing but a waste of time. A study of tantra would be very helpful, but just an open willingness to remove all boundaries is enough. The most important prerequisites are the ability and willingness to learn.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It varies like the taste of soylent green; i.e. from person to person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A person's current affinities are not just uninformative, but also misleading.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The development of humanity throughout time and what things we have left to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. I don't like uncontrollable, loud music. I don't like large groups of people that I've never met. I don't like being exposed to noisy drunkards. I enjoy the quiet company of a few intelligent individuals who may have something valuable to say. Everyone else can just leave me be.

Hrmm... maybe Friday would make a good night for some spiritual sex?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask specific questions and you'll get specific answers. I typically don't want to keep secrets for myself unless I have a strategic reason. It's hard to extort someone with public knowledge.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are interested in an highly intimate friendship. I'm looking for a seeker of Truth and one who believes that Love is the Law. I'm looking for one who believes that when all things are properly understood, the interest of the whole and the interest of the individual are the same.

I'm looking for a woman that enjoys sex to the point that she learns to be good at it; not to make someone happy, but for herself. Skills make for good sex. No skills makes for boredom. No one is born with some special talent that makes them good. It's all about practice and attention.

If you consider yourself to be the "jealous type" and you think that's the way you should be, then please do not message me. If you are jealous, possessive, controlling, or just plain selfish, then it would be best for you to make peace with yourself before screwing up someone else's life along with your own.