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Benthoven

49 M New Windsor, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 9
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Tagalog (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I just realized that I'm too old to die young, but I'm finally becoming the man I want to date.
What I’m doing with my life
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My passion is writing. I write gay novels with an emphasis on the occult and a lot of religious satire. I am sometimes asked to do public speaking, and occasionally some standup comedy, all of which terrifies and thrills me all at the same time.
I’m really good at
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I'm great with the written word. I spend a lot of time ruminating on things, usually about my place in the Universe, is there a purpose to life, what's the air-speed velocity of a laden swallow: things like that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm pretty friendly and a little silly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dracula; Storytelling Animal; The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Movies: Harry Potter (all); Life of Brian; Austin Powers (even Gold Member); Scooby Doo One and Two
Shows: Red Dwarf, Scrubs, Bewitched, Fawlty Towers, Big Bang Theory
Music: Abba, Blondie, The Killers, Donna Summer, MC Lars
Food: Pizza, Nachos, French Fries
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My laptop
2. Music
3. My "me" time
4. Coffee
5. My Kindle
6. Oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Does the universe think?
Does life have a plan?
What is the air-speed velocity of a laden swallow?
Will I ever meet that special someone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out at Starbucks writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's been a really really long time since I've been with anyone. They say that having sex is like riding a bike, but the last time I was on a bike, I kept falling off.
You should message me if
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You think we have something in common.