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Bentruistic

26 / M / straight / Single

Streetsboro, Ohio

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Optimistic, Humorous, and Casual.

My Self-Summary

I used to be really introverted but not so much anymore. I get along with anyone who wants to get along but I tend to be selective about those I hang out with regularly. I often enjoy a good conversation but also enjoy the silence occasionally too.

I like exploring new places, taking pictures, sketching figures, and listening to the sounds of the world. Sometimes I have an odd sense of humor or get hyper and dance through the isles and play with the toys at Target. The circus can be fun but it's cheaper to go to Wal-Mart.

I don't have many strong beliefs except that violence makes me physically ill and people need to work together for the best possible outcome.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a massage therapist currently building a clientel or looking for more work. I recently moved to Streetsboro and adopted a kitten. I am saving up to go back to school and find the next step in my life. Since I'm not in school currently I have more time to focus on myself and meet new people.

I’m really good at

Cooking, massages, drawing, being funny, singing to nobody, and being myself.

The first things people usually notice about me

I can be reserved and at the same time completely uninhibited. That I look younger and act older than 26.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Mostly eating vegan right now.

Just enjoyed all the Harry Potters over the summer. Recently read Into the Wild. Currently reading Travels with Charlie and an assortment of buddhist books. Many others on chronic pain (muscular and spinal). The Grapes of Wrath, Watership Down, The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy (really only the first two and couple chapters in the third are good), Calvin and Hobbes, The Eyes of the Dragon, Firestarter, The Stand, Fight Club, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, the original Winnie the Poohs, Variety Puzzles.

Music: The Beatles, The Cure, The Killers, Coconut Records, Bishop Allen, Erasure, Tom Waits, Fun, Depeche Mode, Deftones, NIN, Ben Folds Five, Donovan, Elliot Smith, Flight of the Concords, Jethro Tull, Moby, New Order, Pet Shop Boys, The Offspring, Pink Floyd, Radiohead, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Smiths, Yes.

Movies: The Wrong Guy, Wet Hot American Summer, Stuart Saves His Family, Stealing Harvard, Floundering, Dead Man, Night on Earth, Brazil, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, Barton Fink, O' Brother, Where Art Thou?, Life of Brian, The Fisher King, Bad Santa, Jiminy Glick, Twin Peaks, Blue Velvet, Adventureland, Pineapple Express, 40-year-old Virgin, Love Liza, Punch-drunk Love, Rat Race, Rushmore, Bottle Rocket, The Royal Tenenbaums, Hot Rod, Step Brothers, The Incredibles, Shaolin Soccer, Kung Fu Hustle, Kung Pow.

The six things I could never do without

Being able to cook for myself
Having someone to be nice to
Hot baths
Books
My hands
An open mind

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I want to be and how to get there.
Who I want to be with.
How to better myself in the mean time.
How I could make a difference in this world.
My website: http://www.bencollura.abmp.com

On a typical Friday night I am

Most nights I'm working or just at home reading or with a movie or game.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't really have any secrets.

You should message me if

If you have any questions or comments, feel free to contact me :P