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BeorimJ

35 / M / straight / Single

Cork, Ireland

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.78m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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I am quiet, nerdy, and friendly.

My Self-Summary

What to say. I am a goth at heart, and it would be ideal if that is met, but its a must that it is accepted.

Though i am not all about Goth.. i am also a computer Nerd, like gaming now and then (the less obligations i have, the more i spend my time gaming), i love to watch whatever comes to mind.. certain TC series (Scrubs, House, Boston Legal, Psych, Babylon 5, Supernatural, Smallvill, The IT Crowd - just to name a few), or films (just about everything that doesnt put up too big a fight).
I also absolutely love to read. Mostly fantasy, and depending on my mood it can happen that one weekend sees me read 2 whole books (and that means 3-500 pages books, not 50 page essays ^^ )
Now in German
mit Leib und Seele goth, und es waere perfekt wenn sich das im Gegenstueck findet, zumindest aber muss es akzeptiert werden.

What I’m doing with my life

working, reading (mostly fantasy), watching films, watching TV series (House, Supernatural, Psych ....)
playing and surfing

Not to forget working.
Now and then going out.

The usual.

I’m really good at

Finishing my books too damn fast, so that i end up having to buy new books to fast^^

I also excel at finding the wrong words in the right moments, to upset someone without meaning too, although i am also very good at the opposite - to be there for friends, lend a shoulder to lean and cry on, and then finding the right words to at least try to help.

The first things people usually notice about me

That i am "big", and that i am much more softspoken than they imagined.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

anything having to do with fantasy, or the supernatural (for example Lord of the ringsm the Hobbit, Anita Blake series, Anne Rice, Wheel of time and many more)
That goes for both films and books.
Generaly i am a movie addict, and i would watch almost everything at least once.
Someo of my favourites:
LotR, American History X, Taxi Driver, The Wrestler

I am mostly into goth related music.. so Goth Rock, Old EBM, Mediaeval, also quite a bit of Folk, and much more.. i dislike Techno, HipHop, german Volksmusik, most ordinary Charts music (Though there are always bands or songs that cross the line)

The six things I could never do without

Friends
Computer
Internet
Food
Air
Sex

On a typical Friday night I am

either in front of the TV, or gaming, or reading, or on a night out... all depends

You should message me if

You feel like it.