I follow my heart, not always my head, but this has never steered me wrong. I trust my instincts completely. Anytime my spidey senses are tingling, I pay attention. I'm also an extremely passionate individual with a huge heart. Oh, and I cuss a lot, total potty mouth. I have a very crass, dark sense of humor and find the most inappropriate things absolutely hilarious. I'm practically un-offendable and if you offend easily I'm not your girl. I tend to have no filter which is fine as long as you're not concerned about what others think. I know I'm not.
I'm very laid back, low maintenance and pretty much up for anything as long as it's fun and I'm around good people. My usual stomping grounds are Cap Hill, Colfax, South Broadway and I dig Lo-Hi and Highlands. I love beer, good tequila, good food, good conversation and good music. I will admit, I'm kind of a music snob but my tastes vary (check out my extra long list of musical loves). I love going to concerts, movies, museums, yummy restaurants and just hanging out talking. I'm a very good conversationalist and great listener. I'm not super outdoorsy, but I do like hiking and camping. I'm most comfy in jeans, band T and my chucks although I'm also known to rock a 5 inch heel and get dressed up from time to time. I clean up quite well :)
Personally I'm a loyal, trustworthy, independent, strong, opinionated, compassionate, sweet, loving, kind, sensitive, brilliant, confident, a little shy, endearing, funny, free spirited, fly by the seat of her pants kind of girl. I know who I am and what I want out of life. Most importntly, I like who I am and the strong woman I've become. I'm not looking for someone to complete me, I'm complete on my own. I am however looking for someone to compliment me. I want someone to see and appreciate the same things I see in myself. The majority of my friends I've known for 10 to 20+ years, I'm a good girl to know.
I prefer tall, dark, handsome, tattoo, bad boy intellectual types (i.e. Johnny Depp, James Dean, Josh Homme, Tom Hardy). That's not to say this is the only type of guy I'm into, hardly the case. I'm also about personality - charm, intelligence, wit, and especially funny, funny goes a VERY long way in my book. Please, please, please make me laugh til I can't breathe!! That's the best ever!!
I'm looking for someone who's confident, honest, trustworthy, genuine, knows who and what they are, and strong enough to handle me.
I recently read a quote, supposedly it's from Henry Rollins, which makes it cool in and of itself, but I digress. Not sure if it's his or not but it basically sums up what I want - "I want a soul mate who can sit me down, shut me up, tell me ten things I don't already know and make me laugh. just turn me on". Nuff said, gauntlet thrown - BAM!!
I'm not a damsel in distress waiting to be saved, although I do like knowing if I needed it, my man could save me. I want someone who's willing to walk beside me through all of life's adventures. And I do love me a good, interesting, crazy adventure. I'm not an armchair kinda girl, I like to shake things up! I still have a wild streak so if you're the stay-at-home kind of person I'm not for you.
So there ya have it...a little bit about me. Not like most people are gonna read this anyway, but, ya never know.