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29 M Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:59am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
If you were to talk to my friends and ask them, "Ok, give me the skinny on this guy (pointing at me)", I would expect them to answer as follows: "He's a dude that knows something about many things. He's definitely more on the classy side: cocktail lounge rather than dive bar for sure. He is really open though. He's been around different parts of the world and is great to travel with since he speaks like a hundred languages." Thank you, thank you.

If I have to describe myself, I would say, I'm a nice guy. You know, give up my coat to you if you're feeling cold, kind of person. I enjoy quality in life. Whatever you do big or small, I admire someone who puts the effort to get things right. I like to have a nice balance between work and play. I like to work out or go for bike rides or almost anything outdoors from running to snowboarding. I am also a big Badger football fan.

I like to travel but all the while keeping a solid home base. My ideal way to travel is visit one of my friends, now embedded in one of maybe 20-30 countries and see their country from the perspective of a local denizen. I like to have a general plan of where to go but with enough squiggle room to improvise because I feel there are always surprises that are worth discovering. I like camping/hiking mixed with a good few days at a nice spa or hotel.

I'm a good listener and I get along well with people who make the effort to communicate well with how they feel, good or bad. I'll go out of my way for my friends and would much rather have a few very close friends rather than a large group who don't really have anything in common. I am a nice guy!

Things I like to do on the side:
- Yoga
- Windsurfing (in the summer)
- Snowboarding (in the winter)
- Play the piano (learning now)
I’m really good at
Star gazing (yeah!)
Taking care of my hair, hi hi ;).
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a black haired version of Sunshine from Remember the Titans (shorter of course and I'm no QB).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Books by written by P. G. Wodehouse
- Coen brothers, Wes Anderson or Stanely Kubrick
- Breaking bad (duh), the Wire, Game of Thrones

- Kaamelott: amazing story line and also of talking about our day and age but set in the middle ages. One of my favourite passages (for those who understand french):
Le Roi Arthur: J'aimerais lui donner des fleurs. Voyez, pour lui exprimer mon transport.
Guethnoc (un paysan): Pour le transport, il vaut mieux une brouette!
I mean c'mon! How brilliant is that?
- Frasier: one of the best written comedies. When I don't get a reply from you ladies, I think of the following exchange:
Frasier: So, what did she say?
Niles: Her lips said "no", but her eyes said, "read my lips!".
Brilliant wouldn't you agree? Hopefully you gals save me from that thought :).

- Music: I like classical music (Schubert in particular), Muse, Radiohead, Jazz (especially like the old Swing era Jazz), Les Ogres de Barback, Old school R&B

- Well prepared vegetarian food (doesn't matter where it is from)
The six things I could never do without
My friends and family
Cheese (especially a good Gruyère or Roquefort)
Long walks
Quotes of Groucho Marx
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Philosophy: Existentialism, Epistemology
Football: one of my goals in Madison is to get to the sideline somehow before I finish my PhD. Ideas anyone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Either at a concert at the overture center and/or meeting up with friends over dinner and drinks. Sometimes, I've been known to sit back and watch some Netflix too.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You care about the finer things in life
- You want to travel the world
- You want to get into an argument for the fun of it.
- You'd like to try speaking in different languages in the same sentence (yeah, I've got mad skill).
- You just want to chat