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Beshda

23 F Elmhurst, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 16
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Okay), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a shy girl who has lived many places (but really, not that many) and values honesty over everything. I used to define myself by the fact that I haven't had a great chance to get to know and become close to my friends before moving. But now, it's all up to me. While that may be one of the clearest goals I have in my life right now, I am pursuing professional interests that will allow me to continue studying various things.
What I’m doing with my life
-studying publishing
-informally studying languages
-working in IT
I’m really good at
-Finishing the things I start.
-Food happens when I'm around.
-Finding time to do all of the things I really want, even at seemingly inconvenient times (e.g. during the middle of a busy semester).
-Thrift store scavenger hunts.
-Finding ways to get free books.
-Making lists, apparently.
The first things people usually notice about me
I never seem to dress appropriately for the weather. (Mostly, I dress for whatever kind of indoor setting I expect to be in.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(Why is all this stuff in one category?)

Books/Plays
-Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
-Swann's Way
-Harry Potter #3
-Passing
-The Tempest
-Wicked!
-(Greg Bear collection of short stories:) "Heads" "Sisters" "Shroedinger's Plague" "Dead Run"
-Foundation series (1-4, Foundation and Earth is iffy)
-Nineteen Eighty-Four

Movies
-The Matrix
-The Devil's Advocate
-Constantine
-V for Vendetta
-Beaches
-Rose Red
-Bamboozled
-Rope
-Banshun

Shows
-Buffy the Vampire Slayer
-Digimon (seasons 1 and 2)
-Ghost in the Shell Stand Alone Complex
-Doctor Who
-Alias

Web Comics
-Questionable Content
-Octopus Pie
-Johnny Wander
-Dinosaur Comics
-Monster Pulse

Music
(Artists)
-House of Waters
-Björk
-Stevie Wonder
(Songs)
-In a Big Country
-Yesterday and Today
-Little Motel
-Blinded by the Light (and Chopsticks)
-Gemini
-Solsbury Hill
-Tsuki no Uta
-Shinjitsu no Uta
-Shiki no Uta
-Luna
-Llorando
The six things I could never do without
-A word processor.
-My laptop's self-destruct button. I've used it at least seven times.
-Good food, or the lack of, really affects my mood. (Is that odd?)
-Reciprocity and continuity.
-Honesty.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How to fix a recipe. (I'm that roommate.) Specifically, blueberry bagels.
-The ridiculousness of grand narratives. They are everywhere.
-Translations and jargon. And time.
-Why are Sign Language and C++ languages if they're not spoken, in a verbal sense? Why isn't Braille there?
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying. Or reading. Or any number of things, really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm allergic to perfume. And powder. And weed. And cigarettes. And heavy-duty cleaning chemicals. Amongst other things.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 20–24
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to talk. I'm up for making friends. If you're interested in dating, please respect my monogamous preference.