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Betorqum

49 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:55am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm easy going, fun, funny, irreverent, very energetic and very sensual/sexual & mostly polyamorous (I'm happily monogamous when it's the right person & the right vibe).

I've traveled a lot internationally in the past, Latin America & South America for pleasure & business, India 11 times, South East Asia dozens of times for studies of natural healing systems, business & pleasure.

I love people, food, culture, organic gardening, walking/hiking in nature (daily), adventure, but also I like to be mellow & to snuggle on the couch giving/getting foot rubs or watching movies in the evening. I like to read books but I also like to go out dancing, & to try new things. Again, alternately, I'm perfectly happy staying home to make an early dinner, & to get into bed early too!
What I’m doing with my life
For the past 25 years, I've been a massage teacher & practitioner of various Asian modalities of healing & rehabilitation ie Shiatsu, Thai Massage, Chinese & Ayurvedic Medicine, etc . I am quite healthy and active currently and I love love love to organic garden & to dig my hands into & feel my bare feet on damp earth. I ride my bike daily, using it as my main source of transportation, though I do drive some when needful. I LOVE to dance, which I am doing a lot more lately, as Spring has sprung...

Chi Kung, Martial Arts & Yoga have been passions & practices since childhood. Study & practice of Sexual Taoist Arts, as an adult, also informs my purpose in life. Lately I've been focusing my energies and intentions this past year on developing a new niche practice: Paleo/MovNat Lifestyle Coaching & Consulting. I combine all my knowledge, life experiences & intuition to serve & support clients, family & friends.

I know. It all sounds kinda cheesy, doesn't it?

But I do believe a life of service, altruism & right livelihood, assisting in guiding others in meeting their own needs, plays an essential role in my needs also being met. Play & having fun & laughter are all essential parts of my life too.

I have a beautiful 8 year old son who lives in SF with his mother, my ex-gf.
I’m really good at
Cooking
Gardening
Laughing (at self & at/with others)
Nurturing others as well as myself
Communicating
Relaxing
Sleeping
Sex
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile
My eyes
My sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This kind of list is ever evolving....

I'm eclectic in my interests, so I read a number of books on diverse subjects, like: neuroscience, biographies, history, philosophy, marketing, gardening, health, diet, cooking, fiction, sci fi, transhumanism, sex, alchemy, wolves ... you get the picture!

Authors I like: Hemingway, Steinbeck, Camus, Poe, John Irving, Robert Jordon, Isabelle Allende, Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, Ann Rice, Anne Lamott

Cable TV, lately:
Masters of Sex
Game of Thrones
Vikings
Hannibal
Walking Dead

Music: All music basically except bad Country Music(which is most of it in my opinion, I'm Southern, so I know of what I speak...)
I love: Reggae, Roots, Ska, Motown, Soul, R&B, Classic Rock of the 50s, 60s, 70s & some 80s, 60s Psychedelia, Punk, Classical & Symphonic Music, but also Pink Floyd, Grateful Dead, Dylan, Cowboy Junkies, Beatles, Kinks, LedZep, George Harrison, Roy Orbison. Elvis, Frank Sinatra & Johnny Cash are Gods, as is Ray Charles.
Ok I will admittedly, only when a pensive mood strikes me, sometimes also listen to some real country music like Hank Sr & Jr, Patsy Cline & Waylon & Willie Nelson ok they are cool. David Allen Coe, under-appreciated.

Eats: Mainly home-cooked Paleo/Primal Food is my daily fare, ie real organic local food, that needs to be washed, sliced, chopped and/or cooked.
Ginormous Salads (daily)
Stews & Soups (seasonally)
Marinades, Sauces
Home-made condiments & fermented foods
Thai Food
Korean Food
Chocolate (daily)
Avocados (most days)
Hot Spices & Hot Sauces (most days)
Veggie, veggies and oh yeah, ...veggies (daily)
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Food
Frolicking
Fun
Fucking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future: My son's future, my own, my aging parents', the planet's ie climate change & the environment
On a typical Friday night I am
Nice Dinner, then Dancing. Or the exact opposite: resting, reading, setting my sights on Saturday morning, wondering if I can actually catch up on some needed sleep... all while doing any number of things, preferably fun, non-linear or sexual, sometimes other work-type things might get accomplished too
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm learning to be kinky(er). I was described last year, as being somewhat vanilla, but lately I see myself as a lighter shade of mocha!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want spontaneous, fun, honest, communicative, caring but drama-free dating, love & partner-play on a p/t basis.