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BetterThanOJ

26 / F / gay / Seeing someone

Astoria, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am intuitive, awkward, and adorable.

My Self-Summary

I'm usually the person who will state the obvious that everyone else is attempting to avoid. That said, I'm also a bit shy at first. I'd say I'm an intellectual, a raving feminist, an aspiring writer, a huge wise ass, an awful speller, a fabulous lover...

I'm feminine but would by no means describe myself as a lipstick lesbian. I'm irritable when it comes to shopping and fashion and you won't find me at [insert some froofroo cosmetics place] agonizing over which wrinkle cream to buy. I have an old soul and would like to find my soulmate (and yes I do believe everyone has one). I love to travel however haven't in a long time and would like to change that.

Writing is what keeps me going in life. Whether it be a fabulous day or a retched one from hell, my tendency is to write in order to survive. Whatever my mood or whatever I'm doing, writing brings me back to myself. I finally decided that if that's what I love I should find a school and go roll around in words and have a fabulous time! So that is what I plan. I've lived a lot of life thus far and throughout it all grad school has been a hope and dream.

This is all a bit disjointed and roughed up but that's ok, hope you got the general idea. I'm quirky and a friend once described me as "an awkward and adorable girl." I took this as a compliment!

What I’m doing with my life

I work at Barnes and Noble and plan on applying to graduate school for this coming year.

I’m really good at

Writing... rationalizing... making myself laugh (occasionally others)... over using ellipses... ice dancing (past life)... water skiing/wakeboarding... fixing stuff (or I like to think)...

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and (depending on the circumstances) that I blush.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Sister Outsider by Audre Lorde (well, anything by Audre Lorde)
Cunt: A Declaration of Independence by Muscio
Borderlands/La Frontera by Gloria Anzaldua
Bitchfest
My favorite magazine is Bitch, but I also love Ms. and occasionally Bust. I'm definitely not into fashion magazines!

The six things I could never do without

A pen and at least a scrap of paper to write on (I count that as one!), a book, a hair elastic, my sigg water bottle, chapstick, and um... honestly... sex.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything...

On a typical Friday night I am

The occasional date or chilling with a friend...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm slightly OCD about shaving my legs.

You should message me if

Your gut tells you to and you love sunday mornings, coffee, the New York Times, and being in the sunshine!