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BettyBaker

29 / F / Bisexual / Available

Livermore, California

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The Great Date

To be fair I've never gone out on a date with her. But the icon for this award is a picnic basket! Who wouldn't like a picnic basket??? ... read more

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am mutinous, winsome, and a good egg.

My Self-Summary

Let's start with the contents of my iGoogle bookmarks widget:

A word a day
Cake Wrecks
Dan Savage
Language Log
Mark Morphord
New York Times
Sleep Talkin' Man

Hmm. This might actually be useful. From this list, you can tell that I like language, laughs, and lasciviousness with my morning coffee, all stirred gently to the left.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a piano and voice teacher, a church pianist, a returning student, about to be married, and have recently taken on two yards full of gardening chores. Help.

I’m really good at

Whimsy! Music! Coffee!

The first things people usually notice about me

I'd probably die of shame if I knew. For now, I'll hope *hard* that it's my laugh or my legs. In a good way.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: nonfiction of any variety--lately, history and gardening books are topping that list, fluffy easy urban fantasy (in the spirit of full disclosure), just about any spec fic, and cookbooks.

Movies: 3:10 to Yuma, Wall-E, Up!, Batman Begins, Das Boot, and Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark.

Music: Eva Cassidy, the Mamas and the Pappas, and Aretha Franklin.

Food: Yummy food.

The six things I could never do without

1. Something to brainstorm about
2. Coffee in the morning
3. A way to make music
4. Community
5. A blanket for my feet
6. Access to new ideas and information

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Coffee, flirtation, reading, and whatever project's swept me off of my feet most recently.

On a typical Friday night I am

...still pedantic, judgmental, and too soft-hearted for my own good.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm in an open relationship with a guy you'd probably like to play chess with. Also, while I'm perfectly willing to date around, I admit that I'm looking for a long-term, committed relationship.

You should message me if

you're funny, kind to a fault, or very, very, very smart.