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Bexett

24 F Madison, WI

My Details

Last Online
May 27
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm learning to play the banjo, and sometimes the guitar but its not as interesting. Oh, I'm somewhat decent with a ukulele.

I'm in a pretty committed relationship, but it's open and I'm open to entertaining the idea of a bit on the side. My primary is, however, primary and I expect that to be respected.

At any given point I have a dozen or so projects on a side burner I'm really itching to get back to but haven't due to lack of time/energy/resources/creative inspiration (getting a chronic illness sucked balls).

When I've got the first of the above but nothing else, I like meandering around town trying to get lost.
What I’m doing with my life
Working. It has its ups and downs.

Long term? Trying to actually be skilled in one of my many hobbies. I'm rocking the "jack of all trades" but "master of none" stings a bit.

Saving the universe.

If I ever disappear, check Alaska, since I might follow my aunt in pulling a "so long, folks" and ending up somewhere in the middle of nowhere with really fantastic stars at night. Actually two of my aunts kind of did that.
I’m really good at
Finding new hobbies.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A lot of sci-fi, though I do still need to read the Foundation Trilogy (I know, I just havent yet and at this point I worry its over-hyped. Like Dune. I hated Dune.) I love Vernor Vinge, and I do have a fondness for Michener. I think I'd like to branch out from the world of Sci-Fi/Fantasy though- I feel like I want something to sink my teeth into, and as much as I love Gaiman, Butcher, things like Song of Ice and Fire, I want something with more depth.
I do like a lot of non fiction- James Glieck has a few good books, I forget the name of the guy that goes the really narrative histories- The Devil in the White City is one I read lately that I loved. Bring on suggestions.
Currently reading The History of White People (which is a historical look at why there's this notion of whiteness and how its been used in society. Spoiler alert: bad science done to affirm positions that validated and enforced power structures has a lot to do with it) and Guns, Germs. and Steel. I just finished Fun Home by Alison Bechdel. When I've finished what I'm currently reading, Infinite Jest is next up.

Movies: Bad sci fi movies, good sci fi movies, eye candy movies, stupid action films, kung fu movies, cerebral indies.

Shows: Dr Who, RuPauls Drag Race, ST:TNG, battlestar galactica, Lexx, Buffy. Also, I believe the industry term for me in regards to TV programming is either a "cord cutter" or a "cord never".

Music: Almost everything. Honestly. When I put my music on shuffle it has an odd tendency to switch back and forth between indie folk/bluegrass and rap.

Food: I like food. I recently became a vegan, for both health and moral reasons. Its been great.
The six things I could never do without
-Some way to make stuff. Making things feels like biological imperative to me and when I've been unable to I just feel wrong.
-An instrument- I've occasionally gone without for a bit and one just sort of...happens after a while.
-The ability to go outside
-Math
-Occasional human contact
-Time to myself

As much as I'm a gadget geek, I can actually do without my phone/tablet/computers. I just really like messing around with them.

And everybody hates this question, I think they leave it in to torment their users. Or they're really collecting some very odd data about how people react to various aspects of this question. I really miss the statistics they used to pull from this site.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I'd manage if for some reason modern civilization fell and I had to fend for myself. Also, how I'd manage the fledgling village-thing that for some reason always forms up in my imagination.

The evolution of language and how it effects people. I will spend a lot of time thinking just about things like vowel shape and dialect shift and what causes that, and then notice the vaguely gene-like behavior and then how it's easy to draw parallels to what Richard Dawkins called "memes" and then you think about how his idea and popular coinage of the term meme has now itself morphed into the current usage of the term meme, and then you can start wondering if words have always evolved this quickly, which maybe, how would you get that data? But Dictionaries!

And my mom earnestly uses the word "groovy" when she's high.

How to solve the issues of inner city poverty and social immobility in the States. How to organize a school system, from how I'd run a classroom if I ever taught, to how to run a nation of public schools.

Food.

Android phones and development. I've gotten as far as hello world on an emulator but one day, when I have time I'll play more with it, I'll probably build some stuff that no one but me will use. I blame work and all my other hobbies for taking up all my time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with people or tending to hobbies, depending on the kind of week.
Really good: Out
Decent: Either
So-so: In
Not Great: Either
Really bad: Out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate having to admit this but after being asked out to go climbing or a handful of other things I can't do several times, I really am tired of going through the following information.
I have really bad auto-immune arthritis. Some days my hands don't work, and I can't type so good. Or open things, or climb, or play my instruments. There have been days when I can't really walk, either. I recently started meds I can't have alcohol with, so my love of beer and wine has ceded to my love of being able to do things.

Some days I'm fine though, and its awesome.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You'd like to hang out and don't really care what direction things go in, whether its casual, just friendly, or what have you.

You are an experienced Dom that takes safety seriously and would be willing to work with someone who has been out of the scene for a bit due to reasons.

If you want to have an IRL vegan friend, I'd like one.