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  • Ages 40-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Apr 7
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm retired now, yeah! Downsized to a townhouse, getting rid of old stuff and redecorating with the new. With the extra time and the lack of corporate insanity in my life I've discovered quite by accident I love to write poetry. I also serve on one of the commissions for my city. My home has a small backyard that was bare dirt when I moved in; I'm having fun gardening and doing little bits of landscaping - it's the perfect size for me. Also, I'm expending my culinary horizons and slowly learning to eat healthier and do more cooking. I've rediscovered camping (well, car camping), I like to ride my bike for fun and enjoy walking too. I'm transgender.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying new things (these days I'm leaning to hula hoop and how to sew). Embracing the positive energy in people and situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I love to smile. I have great legs. I'm gentle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Eat, Pray, Love; Blink; Tipping Point; This is Your Brain on Music; Why Things Bite Back; Stillness Speaks; Outliers; General Theory of Love; Self-Made Tapestry; Earth From Above; View From the Center of the Universe; Real Food; Omnivore's Dilemma; Botany of Desire; Little Green Dresses.

Movies: Chick flicks, dramas, documentaries, no violence please.

Food: Anything healthy, especially fresh from the garden. Usually prefer in-home to eating out, though I do enjoy a good pizza. Picnics are always a wonderful way to enjoy food.

Music: Eclectic. Some jazz, especially piano (I love Silvan Zingg). Classical, pop, light rock, African.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Compassion. Love. Connecting. Sunrises. Chocolate. Skirts. Nature. (that's seven; arbitrary limits I can do without.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting outside the boxes society offers up to us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Scarcely typical. Sometimes a snuggle party, sometimes an open mic poetry reading, sometimes a piano improv, cooking dinner for a friend, a soak in a hot bath and painting my nails, sometimes dancing, walking around the park with a stop to see how high I dare to go on the swing, listening to live music at the local coffee shop...
You should message me if
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