I like who I am. I'm content with my life and I enjoy people. I can discuss anything and I do have a few soapboxes, but I can control my rants. I enjoy listening to other people's rants, too--hell, I even touch "buttons" just to stir things up. I don't try to impose my beliefs or opinions on anybody and will shut down anybody attempting to proselytize.
I've traveled most of my life and I've enjoyed several cultures. I like unique people and I'm happy to have a few lunatics among my friends.
I'm not a health nut or a sports fan, although I will eat healthy on occasion and watch a Super Bowl or World Series. Getting out of bed accomplishes my exercise routine for the day and I'll be happy to raise my beer to toast you as you run by on your umpteenth lap.
I enjoy smoking cigars. No, I don't 'have' to smoke them, but I like to smoke them. I am aware that most people find the stench deplorable and I always go outside to smoke. If that's a deal killer for you, then so be it. But I have no interest in hearing any more pontifications.
I carry a concealed weapon. If it really bothers you I can unarm, but I become a big wuss then.