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60 M De Funiak Springs, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:19am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm going through a fairly momentous time in my life and I don't have anybody to share it with and that sucks. But I feel like I'm the guy everybody is referring to when they say "Must live near me" and "Not into pen pals" etc. Sorry about that, but even if you lived next door I'm in no rush. Frankly, I like the idea of exchanging messages for a while. It beats the hell out of having to shell out hundreds of dollars for a few dates only to find someone's attitudes are a complete turn off. Exchanging messages for a while demonstrates at least a modicum of education in the proper use of there, their and fare, fair...unlike the woman who professed two PhD's amidst numerous misspellings.

I may not be able to sweep you off you feet in 25 words or less, but maybe I can in a few thousand.

Okay, I was told I needed to be more personable in this section. Here goes: I'm somewhat of a dichotomy--I can be very intense professionally yet I'm laid back in my personal life. I set a high bar for work, yet I'm very tolerant in life. I don't expect to persuade anybody on any subject and I do not like proselytizing. I abhor a fascist and I loathe a socialist. I support a free market without apology. Although I can be charitable, my opinion is that people who failed to achieve in their early life should live with the consequences. But I'm passionate about tending to the affirmed.

I enjoy an evening out as much as I enjoy wine on the deck watching the sunset. I prefer conversation to TV, but I do have some shows I like to watch.

I don't have a recipe for a perfect mate. The high level stuff such as intelligence, humor, compassion and wisdom can apply to a great many. If I had to select one quality I'd like in a mate it would be happy. I enjoy the search because she will be worth it.

I guess I should state up front that I'm not willing to drive an hour to meet anybody, let alone enter a relationship that is "long distant".
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in the final phase of establishing a new medical school (yes, the kind that creates MD's). It's been a 9 year venture to date and I am literally weeks away from it becoming a reality.
I’m really good at
making friends. I grew up a military brat, which meant you learned to make friends fast or learned how to fight because you were always the new kid. Despite traveling all over the world and meeting thousands of people, I still have friends from elementary school. Who knew I had so many friends with bad taste?
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told it's my eyes. That third one is pretty sexy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm one of those people who can't tell you the name of a song and who sang it or the name of an actor in a movie. Based on many of OKC's questions, my life is deficient because I can't name 6 poets, authors or artists. On the upside, I can't name 6 porno stars, either.

I'm not a fan of concerts, movie theaters or major sporting events. I'd rather not contend with the idiosyncrasies of numerous people while trying to be entertained. Give me a trio in a small cafe, a pay per view movie snuggled up on the couch and some munchies and I'll be content. But on the flip side, I do enjoy treating a woman to a grand night out with dinner and a special event to create a good memory.
The six things I could never do without
Good friends, a good cigar, good scotch, cold beer, a good steak and a happy woman. For those opposed to alcohol, I will say I do not suffer from cenosillicaphobia.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my project. Out of necessity it consumes most of my waking thoughts. It's coming to fruition now, so everything is taking on more importance...but I'm having fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually impatiently tapping my fingers as once again a weekend or holiday is delaying my progress. But give me a break...after 9 years I am on the threshold of making my school a reality. Everybody involved is getting antsy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You aren't in a rush to meet and you can handle taking things slow.