I'm a unrepentant flirt in an open marriage. My wife is on this site as well. I try to be candid and honest yet diplomatic and I expect that from anyone with whom I associate. I am fiercely independent. I'd rather be hated for what I am than loved for what I am not. If I say I will meet you, I'm not going to back out at the last minute.
I could lie about myself. I could say I'm looking for "the one," tell you I'm straight and single or some bullshit story about how my marriage is unhappy blah blah blah. I could feed you every line in the book that you've probably heard before. But I won't because it's not in my nature. Even if, god forbid, something were to happen & I was no longer married, I would still not be looking for just one person. That's not who I am.
Not looking for one night stands, but certainly not looking for monogamous relationships either - just friends and if it becomes something more, great. If you just need someone to make you feel special until the "right" person comes along, I play that role well.
I listen more than I talk. I appreciate the fluidity of life. I know from experiences that I could spend an afternoon of romance & passion and never see her again because that evening she met "Mr. Right." I cherish the memories & continue on.
I love Australian Rules Football, and I'm happy it is finally getting some air time again in the states. I will watch football, basketball, baseball & hockey; I prefer pro to college. I love my San Antonio Spurs, Geelong Cats & the Chicago Cubs. I am a Cubs fan because of Scooby-Doo, and yes I will gladly explain that if you're interested.
I am approachable, flirtatious, and tactful.
I commend you if you believe in soulmates & one-true-loves, but I don't. Then again, if you do believe in those things you've probably already passed me by.
Unlike some people, I actually read profiles. If you have an age limit that is even one year younger/older than I, I will not message you because I assume you wouldn't be interested. If the age limit you put it is not set in stone and you are interested, then message me.