I do have my own place, a car, a degree, and a steady job. I know everyone goes through rough patches, but please have a majority of these if you're going to write me. I've worked hard to get where I am and I value people who do the same. Have personal goals and be working towards them.
I'm ultimately looking for someone I get along with well, who has goals similar to mine. While I'm looking to go out and have fun, I'm not looking for a "casual" relationship. I can take things slow and not rush into major commitment, but I am looking for someone who I can have fun with and who I can settle down and have a family with in time.
I'm an introvert (INFJ, if it matters to you) and hate talking about myself, but if you want to know anything, just ask.