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  • Ages 18–55
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My details

Last online
Aug 2
Asian, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Unashamed dance and computer nerd. Although apparently both appear to be a bit fashionable now so let me tell you I was doing it before it became cool. Take that hipsters.

I'm married to the beautiful Vyctryx and we have an equally beautiful daughter. My wife and I are polyamorous, although I find that can be misconstrued as meaning I'm looking for another partner / like the idea of lots of partners (or any other assumption you may care to assume).

I am the sort of person that enjoys life without having to do anything outlandish. I suppose it's like being a contented sort of a person, but with more verve.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Probably working far too much. It's a side of effect of loving what I do, but not one conducive to any manner of social activity.

I'm not generally the kind of person to talk much about what I do (in a work sense) because it feels like I'm trying to give things an unashamed plug.

I'd also like to start dancing again – if I could stay fit for more than two consecutive days. I've mainly been around the ballroom and latin scene, although I would really love to get involved with West Coast Swing and Lindy Hop.

Allegedly I can also play musical instruments, although not having much time it tends to sound more like an attempt to play a musical instrument; especially with the violin.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not keeping my profile up to date.

I think I'm a reasonable dancer, matched only by my ability to injure myself.

One would hope I would be at least serviceable with technology too, given it's what I'm involved with most of the time.

Talking with unnecessary volume.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently that I'm super friendly. I don't really know what that means but I have a picture in my head of snoopy with an open grin and handshake greeting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Firstly, I'm openly proud that I have read more than one book this year. In fact it's the first time I've read a book in over 5 years. I tend to read biographies or autobiographies as real stories are the best - unless they're boring in which case they're the worst.

Also, people who know me well know I have trouble sitting through movies. Anything longer than an hour and I get a real case of the "I could so be doing somethings".

For TV I've enjoyed Glee, Death Note, and Boston Legal, and I also enjoyed listing those shows in that order. I watch a lot of cricket and football during respective seasons.

Musically I'm an eclectic, but not in the hipster sense of the word. I grew up listening to Pet Shop Boys, Depeche Mode, and New Order. Recently I've enjoyed Karnivool, Royksopp, and whatever the exact opposite of Nickelback is. I have a classical music upbringing too, and love the Russian composers and Mozart. I could probably talk for hours about music alone.

For food, I will go anywhere that has good coffee within reason. I'll draw the line at eating concrete but really good coffee is worth almost anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family.
A sense of humour. Preferably mine, but really most people's will do.
Something to stop me from becoming bored.
A compiler.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of existence. The nature of thought. Should I be using one space or two after every full stop?

The latter point probably more than the first two.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Surely this is a trick question. I'm pretty certain I don't have a typical Friday night.

In any case I get what the question's really asking. These days I don't really have any major activity I undertake during the ritual end of working week festivities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One time I accidentally the whole thing.
You should message me if
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1. You like my profile. This one isn't actually mandatory. I'm quite ok with people who don't like my profile messaging me.
2. You aren't a bot. I don't even know if OkCupid has bots, but if you are bot you have been warned.
3. You're poly-friendly.

You should especially message if you like going for coffee.