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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:30am
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Unashamed dance and computer nerd. Although apparently both appear to be a bit fashionable now so let me tell you I was doing it before it became cool. Take that hipsters.

I'm married to the beautiful Vyctryx and we have an equally beautiful daughter. My wife and I are polyamorous for want of a better term.

I am the sort of person that enjoys life without having to do anything outlandish. I suppose it's like being a contented sort of a person, but with more verve.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making games again. It's probably what I do best and feels good to be back.

When I have the time I like to dance ballroom, Latin, West Coast swing, and probably a lot of other styles. Admittedly those opportunities have been limited this year, although the right partner could always change that :)

Allegedly I can also play musical instruments, although short of practice it tends to sound more like an attempt to play a musical instrument.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not keeping my profile up to date. I'm either getting better or worse at that depending on how you read the statement.

I think I'm a reasonable dancer, matched only by my ability to injure myself.

One would hope I would be at least serviceable with technology too, given it's what I'm involved with most of the time.

Talking with unnecessary volume.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently that I'm super friendly. I don't really know what that means but I have a picture in my head of Snoopy with an open grin and handshake greeting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Firstly, I'm openly proud that I have read more than one book this year. In fact it's the first time I've read a book in over 5 years. I tend to read biographies or autobiographies as real stories are the best - unless they're boring in which case they're the worst.

Also, people who know me well know I have trouble sitting through movies. Anything longer than an hour and I get a real case of the "I could so be doing somethings".

For TV I've enjoyed Glee, Death Note, and Boston Legal, and I also enjoyed listing those shows in that order. I watch a lot of cricket and football during respective seasons.

Musically I'm an eclectic, but not in the hipster sense of the word. I grew up listening to Pet Shop Boys, Depeche Mode, and New Order. Recently I've enjoyed Karnivool, Royksopp, and whatever the exact opposite of Nickelback is. I have a classical music upbringing too, and love the Russian composers and Mozart. I could probably talk for hours about music alone.

For food, I will go anywhere that has good coffee within reason. I'll draw the line at eating concrete but really good coffee is worth almost anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee.

b. Family. More specifically mine.

iii) Something to stop me from being bored.


[five] I remember John Carmack once saying he would take a compiler if he were stuck on a desert island. I can relate to that. Although wifi on the desert island would also be useful in that instance.

* A sense of humour. Preferably mine, but really most people's will do.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of existence. The nature of thought. Should I be using one space or two after every full stop?

The latter point probably more than the first two.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These days it's getting hit with balls. Really hard.

On occasion I also get to hit people with balls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One time I accidentally the whole thing.
You should message me if
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1. You like my profile. This one isn't actually mandatory. I'm quite ok with people who don't like my profile messaging me.
2. You aren't a bot. I don't even know if OkCupid has bots, but if you are bot you have been warned.
3. You're poly-friendly.

You should especially message if you like going for coffee.

Side note: The listed ages I'm looking for are a serving suggestion only.