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35 Hamden, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 3
Relationship Type
6' 6" (1.98m)
Body Type
A little extra
Wants kids
My self-summary
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I like a mix of calm and crazy, planned and spontaneous but I tend to lean in the direction of relaxed. I try to be honest and sincere in life.

Right away you will be able to tell how warm, caring, and attentive I am but I have recognized that I may sometimes come off as guarded when first getting to know someone. We need to build a certain level of trust before I let her in. But once she is in she will see how thoughtful and supportive I am. She will see that I can be retrospective from time to time and get lost in my head, sometimes too much. She will come to know that although we may argue from time to time or may not always agree, putting a smile on her face will always be at the top of my list. Most importantly she will see that once she is in my heart she will never have to question my loyalty.

I work hard and don’t play as hard as I should but I have managed to get some stamps in my passport and plan on getting a few more. I love to laugh and hope you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for growth and enrichment to be the best person that I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people comfortable. I hear it over and over how I am easy to talk to and how my presence just brings an aura of comfort.

Oh and cuddling. I'm a big teddy bear.
The first things people usually notice about me
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First they see I am a huge black man. 6'6" 285lbs and handsome. Then they notice how warm and caring I am and that my laugh is infectious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love shows like Flash, Arrow, Agents of SHIELD, Family Guy, Scrubs, How I Met Your Mother, Parks and Rec, Workaholics, Rob & Big, Arrested Development, Archer, Cosmos, Doctor Who, Game of Thrones, and various shows on Discovery Chanel, History Chanel, and Food Network. I was a sucker for reality TV until I cancelled cable.

Musically I love hip hop, r&b, and party/dance music, but I will listen to just about anything. Hip Hop wise I like artist with or who once had substance like Mos Def, Common, The Roots, older Kanye, Jay-Z, J-Cole. R&B wise i'm into stuff like John Legend, Erykah Badu, Musiq Soulchild, Lauren Hill, Robin Thicke, D'Angelo. Love in the Future is an AMAZING album.

Been listening to podcasts a lot recently. Star Talk Radio, PTI, Around the Horn, Fatman on Batman, Girl on Guy, Smodcast, Nerd Poker
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something to listen to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
those things that have made me who I am and how I can continue to be better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with friends watching bad movies or playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually an open book but you have to ask.
You should message me if
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You embrace your inner dork from time to time. You love to laugh and can find joy in the small things in life. Or if you want to hear me sing karaoke.

Please be an active participant in a conversation. I am not looking to conduct an interview. If you will only speak when spoken to or will only respond when asked a direct question then we are not compatible.