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51 M Tampa, FL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me? There are many things about me that you have to discover by being with me. If you are my true love, my soul mate, there are things that I will discover about myself. I can tell you that I am kind at heart, open minded, a simple man that enjoys the simple things in life. I am always seeking out ways to improve myself physically and intellectually. Sometimes when I write, I feel that I am in touch with my soul and that is what I want to feel when I am in love. Have you ever been to a place that makes you take a deep breath and when you exhale, all of your inhibitions are released, you are totally at peace and relaxed? It is a place that touches your soul. That place, for me, is the beach. I expect to have the same reaction when I meet the person that I would consider having a relationship with.
I am a man that will adore you, comfort you, compliment you, talk to you, inspire you, caress you, love you at anytime that you need to be adored, comforted, complimented, listened to, inspired, caressed and loved, but the best is when I catch you off guard with words from my heart. It is in that moment when I should see the love through your eyes.

This is just a taste of what is in my soul;

Enchanting Thought

Walking through the cool white sand, seeing the last glimpses of the sun setting over the ocean, the breeze off the water whispers your name in my ear. My senses are heightened by the smell of the tropical air, the feel of its cooling effect on my body while my imagination tries to put a face to the name that was interposed upon my mind.......and then I wonder if my name came airily to you.
Jock Commander

Purposes of the Heart

Just an organ that pumps blood and oxygen throughout our bodies? It is the other part of the heart that I want to talk about, the unphysical part. Some do not know it exists, do not have an open heart, do not feel the heart in the emotional and spiritual side, unable to listen to its wanting for reciprocal passion. I have felt the pain of heartbreak (not a physical pain from illness) and the elation of love in the heart, a spiritual, emotional feeling that ties the heart to the soul. It can tell us what we should do in some cases, feeling it is right in our heart, following our heart. I want to feel this mystical side of our hearts to be full of love and content with its decisions, astonished at the consciousness of spiritual bliss within it. I want us to experience this together.
Jock Commander

I am a jack of all trades, always a student, devoted to making my life better. Now the bad; I am limited on the amount of time I can work and financially stressed due to a bad back (4 herniated disks and spinal stenosis). I have false teeth, am balding, grey hair, a smoker, live with my son (28), and I snore. I have an ugly past and although I might share it with you, I do not live in it. it is what has made me what I am today. If you can not accept the good with the bad, please do not contact me. I come in a package, if you can put it all together and love me, then please write me a note.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching for what I know is right and pure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, expressing my feelings.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voice, calming, soothing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ghost shows, Ancient Aliens, History Channel, Science Channel Discovery Channel, Classic rock, Heavy metal with good vocals, Italian foods
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Air, Food, Companionship, Sense of Humor, Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Possible explanations for the unexplainable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy! Really, I don't have any routine for any night, I just see what entices me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can look intimidating a lot of the time but I am just a big teddy bear with a kind heart.
You should message me if
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You want to get my attention. Get to know me, I may surprise you.