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BigBen911

32 Dobbs Ferry, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:20am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you're anything like me, you're sick of all these "saltine crackers" on this website... You know the type...
Bland...Common...Dry...Stale...

Strong believer in karma and positive energy
🌎places I've lived:Belgium, Thailand, Iraq,Germany
📷Visited: Qatar, Costa Rica,Belgium, Luxembourg

I turned 19 on 9/11/01 so I joined the army that day
People see me and assume because im 6'4 with a crazy motorcycle and tattoos that I am some kinda brute or oaf. I was in the top 8% of the army and turned down west point 3 times... They wanted me soooo damn bad!
Anyhow...

Just know that I am NOTHING like these other guys on here
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making people smile wherever I go
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
:exploring hidden waterfalls and abandoned places
:manly chores
: Irish Goodbyes
:Helping
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a little shy sometimes... (but I'm totally worth getting to know)
I'm tall, my smile, my tattoos...I dunno you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: Sufi poetry, The Prince, phantom tollbooth, Dr Seuss

movies: streetcar named desire, Pulp Fiction, muppets, ZombieLand!

music: Keiza, mike ness, social distortion, tom waits, Misfits, shakira,system of a down, HILLBILLY MOON EXPLOSION(check out "my love forever more!)dion, the beatles, johnny cash, NIRVANA,rem, HIM, CHILDISH GAMBINO, atmosphere, talking heads, tool,flogging Molly, offspring, no doubt, bush, stained, she&him, beach boys,,2pac, gogel bordello, rockabilly, psychobilly
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
not in any particular order:
Family
Learning
my motorcycle
Universal love
interesting conversation
Traveling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sonder...mostly sonder...
space, time, life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Howling at the moon
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm like a pineapple...tough looking on the outside but sweet on the inside

Also: I'm a bit of a demisexual
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to see the world sparkle through rose pedal glasses

P.S. if you are looking for buns just keep looking