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45 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 5
- 5′ 9″ (1.76m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Judaism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of masters program
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I'm terrible at describing myself, so let's just stick with these quotes from friends, lovers, strangers and small children. Seriously, these are direct quotes.
and of course trying to take over.., I mean, save the world!
Thoughtful caretaking, empathy, cooking, lifting heavy stuff, cleaning, organizing, massage, cuddling, playing, dancing, writing, athletics, math, driving, light car repair, lovemaking, staying youthful. Staying on my paleo diet. Being sarcastic (I'm from Boston).
Suffice it to say that thanks to my father's wise teachings I espouse a "do it right or don't do it at all" ethic, so the stuff I do I pretty much do very well to exceptionally well. If I don't know how to do stuff, I'll tell you right away, then help you figure out how to get it done. I'm a master improviser. I can almost always accomplish any task with whatever is on hand.
I'm essentially a Renaissance man who skipped some of the crafts training to pursue athletic endeavors.
My swordsmanship is somewhat above average however ;-)
So You Think You Can Dance
Everything but twangy country/ranchero
Other people's psychological problems.
Finding an available volleyball or tennis court or ping pong table and people to play with.
When and where the next awesome EDM party is.
WTF is everybody so afraid of?
You should roll with me sometime, seriously. You will NOT regret it.
FYI, to reiterate, the only drug I do is a little Sativa sometimes socially. I don't even require that. I often party with the "rolling" crowd because they keep my natural hours and energy level, but because I'm clean and serene my superpowers remain intact and everybody always gets home safely. But I do not judge or begrudge the weaker among you who require chemical enhancements. If I did I wouldn't have anybody to party with!
you're truly open to possibilities.
You understand that while everything in my profile is true and accurate, I am not my profile. I am a complex, multifaceted human being.
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