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28 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18
Black, Native American, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Roadtrip-lovin, Grey's Anatomy-watching kinda gal. haha truly i love to be around people, especially family (always important) and friends (they are like brothers and sisters) I like to go out to bars, poetry readings, museums dance shows, short hikes, festivals, wine tastings and concerts but i also like to sit at home and read, rent movies, play board games and just listen to the rain or look at the moon. Just depends on the weather and my mood.
I've been dancing for almost 20 years. Trained in ballet, modern, haitian, hip hop, lyrical, jazz, west african, and praise dance. One day I will have my own studio with a plethora of classes for all styles and ages. Goodness there's so much that i could go on and on about but that's what dating is for.
Can't tell you everything you gotta work a little! :-)

Oh and I'm open to interracial dating (everyone should be but that's a rant for another day :P ) Men of different shades are all wonderful. Don't be scared to say hi!

IG: Adivaslyfe
Twitter: IfDivaWasUrGf
What I’m doing with my life
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Incorporating childhood education and dance is my life's passion. As the Director of my church's Praise Dance Ministry, I strive to teach the importance of dance as a worship form and how technique enhances the emotional side. My continual goal is to push praise dance into evolving past it's visibility as a sub-standard art into a leading form of worship. I'm an artist at heart but I do also have a day job :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing. But theres always room for learning and improving. I'm also good at making mix CD's. I always try to capitalize on a person's personality and give them music that is familiar yet inspiring and new. Putting my whole heart into every relationship...which is hard but never regretted :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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my green/hazel eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
oh gosh so many of each..

Books: i dont have a favorite genre but i like biographies, dramatic fiction, teaching books, and magazines. Just to name a few books tho would be "A Piece of Cake", "Love, Lucy", "On the Jericho Road", "Darfur Diaries", "Everyone Worth Knowing".

And my fav magazines are Cosmo, Glamour, Teen Vogue (regular Vogue is too heavy), etc.

Movies: Cruel Intentions, [Star Wars] (all), The Color Purple, Now and Then, Whatever Works, The Best Man, The Family that Prays, Tomb Raider, [Mr and Mrs Smith] Fast and the Furious (all except for Tokyo Drift, that was horrible) [Star Trek] (the two rebooted versions), [The Italian Job] [Knight&Day] [The Killers] [Columbiana] [The Bounty Hunter] and stand up comics like [Kat Williams] [T.K. Holland] [Kevin Hart] [Jo Koy] [George LoPez] [Aaries Spears]

TV: [The Big Bang Theory] [Modern Family] [Grey's Anatomy] [law&order SVU] [Awkward] [SYTYCD] [The Mindy Project] [New Girl]

Music: Mostly i'm an R&B girl but i keep my ears open to gospel, punk rock, pop, alternative, old school rock ([Aerosmith],[ Guns N Roses], Joan Jett, Bon Jovi) jazz, world, hip hop (real and commercial), classical. not too much country tho. ok one must know this about me.....i LOVE Prince. yes Purple Rain Prince. Not matter how old he gets he will always be gorgeous to me so not too much teasing about this.

Food: Oh i would say that i'm a HUGE fan of pasta. period. I can have different noodles and sauces but pasta is awesome to me. So Italian and Mexican are tied haha
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(in no particular order)
cell phone
love (all including family, romantic, etc)
My faith
Honest Communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my life and my future goals. Also places i wanna go and people i wanna meet. Adventures with my friends. Past experiences that help me shape my future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly I'm in rehearsals every Friday. Yeah every Friday. Unless I'm truly under the weather. Thursdays and Saturdays are usually best for the nightlife adventures
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm one of those girls who loves stuffed animals. Not saying i have a hundred animals sitting on my bed but i would love for u to win 1 for me at a fair or carnival. I love romance and romantic gestures but they don't have to be huge and dramatic. Big or small gestures are nice, just as long as i don't see them coming.
You should message me if
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Your attractive, U think I'm attractive, and U like to treat a woman like a queen.
Take me on real dates, girls like that.