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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:27pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an unconventionally straightforward guy. I am not flashy, but I will try anything once. I also speak my mind very openly and can always defend either side in a debate. I am very athletic and competition is a big part of my life, but I find pleasure in a good book, a day at the museum, or even the ballet. There is nothing like a bike ride around the city on a beautiful evening.

Lately I have gotten a lot more interested in non-conventional scenes in the city. I have been challenging my senses in every way I can, both physical and conceptual. Someone told me I seemed so clean and straight, but that I really wasn't; I took that as a great compliment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for the MWRD in the Virology laboratory. It is not as interesting as it sounds. Trust me. I also play a lot of rugby. Spring is a pretty busy time, and I am definitely feeling crunched. Always plenty of work to be done. I am also working on my Masters of Biology, which has been nice so far but a bit of a time sink.

Oh, and I have a motorcycle after wanting one for years, and need to put in some time on it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia, debating, rugby, speaking my mind, getting hit by cars, being, insight, empathy,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My honesty for better or worse (usually worse).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots to be added...
Book: A Confederacy of Dunces, The Alchemist, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Beyond Good and Evil, Ishmael, How the Mind Works, The Black Swan, Fooled By Randomness, The Botany of Desire, A Song of Ice and Fire

Movie: Gravity OMG!!!!, Drive... Only God Forgives... incredible, Enjoyed 50/50 (btw if you like JGL you HAVE to see Mysterious Skin), Hanna was pretty great, So many more I can't even begin

Music: Overall lately I have been diving more into various incarnations of electronic music and Chicago House. Purity Ring, The Faint, Cursive, The Rural Alberta Advantage, Ladytron, Crystal Castles, Nine Inch Nails, Deadmau5, Freelance Whales, The Naked and Famous, CSS, Death Cab for Cutie, Silversun Pickups, The Postal Service, Mendetz, Dr. Dre, Kanye West, Lupe Fiasco, Garbage, Girl Talk, Johnny Cash, Local H, Massive Attack, Sneaker Pimps, Pink Floyd, Placebo, Sleater Kinney, Sleigh Bells, The XX

TV: Curb Your Enthusiasm, Parks and Rec, It's Always Sunny, Review, Broad City, Key and Peele, The Wire, The Shield, Terriers, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Modern Family, Peep Show, Luther, Justified, The Americans, Archer, Legit, House of Cards, Hannibal, The Americans,

I was watching Friday Night Lights, and then OKCupid told me Clear Eyes, Full Hearts, Can't Lose!

Food: Spiced Apple Cider, Trader Joe's Pumpkin Ice Cream, Acorn Squash with butter and brown sugar, indian curry! Yum.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My senses
2. Conversation, specifically talking about things like I have put a lot of thought into them when I am really just pulling stuff out of my ass.
3. Athletics
4. Crushing my enemies
5. Seeing them driven before me
6. Hearing the lamentations of their women

p.s. If you get the reference straight off kudos!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I am a bit of a crackpot philosopher in my spare time. How the heck I can make the things I have in my head reality. What matters.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing a recovery session before taking the pitch the next day to win some hardware. Pushing myself way too hard to do the things I desire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have realized that I am nothing special. I am just the same as everyone else when everything is broken down. That I am incredibly small in the grand scheme of the universe. It is extremely humbling.
You should message me if
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To me this is the hardest section to fill out. I identify as poly, and just want that out up front. I don't think there is any overarching reason to message me. I guess I would say you want to get past the surface. I like to think this river runs deep, but unless you are open and willing you can never find out. I try to respond to every message no matter who it is or what it is about, but these days I have been pretty busy so it is hard to keep up that standard. If you are just going to message me and then not respond once I reply, please don't bother. I find that incredibly annoying and wastes everyone's time.

I am looking for people who want to enjoy and experience life and the world around them. If you want to mutually enhance another person's life, if you think reciprocity is of utmost importance, if you are interested in 'non-goal oriented' dating, then we should definitely talk.

I am not expecting much from here at this point, but there is no harm in putting what you want out here.