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27 Valley Village, CA Man


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  • Ages 20–27
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
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Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm done looking around and I've heard enough horror stories of messages some girls get and I won't be one of "those" guys to waste your time.
So, if you have a minute and feel like reading, here I am.
I hope you like to read, because this baby is long, but I try to keep it entertaining. Consider this a journey if you will... Otherwise, I have been debating on my choice with explaining too much of myself at first. I like to write though, so it comes easy to me and I can tend to go on and on. So, any feedback would be cool, or just skim through this stuff and catch the important highlights... might make life easier...maybe a little...I don't know...nothing is easy...ask an ant...but humans don't speak ant... we can just look at them as they check us out for a second and stroke their antennae then pick back up that big piece of orange peanut-butter-cracker that was left at some pool and march on their way to camp...that is if ants actually march and do it to their own drum...if they have a drummer...

Since moving out here and losing a Love, this old goody of a song sums it up the best, enjoy...
"Lonely Is the Night" - by Billy Squier:

Hello, I'm John Chiara and it looks like I am back after a couple years. I just moved to California from Cleveland, Ohio a few months ago and always looking for a new friend, especially in this new territory of California.

I treat this dating site like fishing. I'll throw the line out there and wait for you to bite.
I'm not going to waste my time chasing you. If you like what you see and read let's talk :)
Fakes, creeps, sluts (do I need to go on?) etc., please stop reading and look for someone else!

Right off the bat I have learned to take things a lot slower, almost at a snail's pace. (but there is the exception of just falling madly in love, sparks flying and having no control. I don't think I'm alone when I say it is incredible. I have had it and was one of the best relationships I ever had)

Yes, I am REAL and I'm here for friends, possible networking, and that person we are searching for to share our life with...
If you want more pictures, check me out @

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Well, you made it this far...This is getting fun isn't it? :o

My Latest Work of Poetry
Burning out
As my candle glows,
a maroon melt pool fills
beneath the wick.
Red drops slide down
the cream colored tapper.
The flame flickers, fighting, fading, fast.
The pool piles, deepens.
The candle takes on a shape,
a bend,
as more red droplets
slide down the body.
I smell an odor,
burnt hair.
An ember remains,
over a boney finger…

Yes, I love poetry and try to keep it up when I have time or inspiration...

Me at a glance...
I live a hard life to follow. I'm finally living in California. I'm an actor (have been since highschool) and that can be very random for my relationship and may call for some distance. I think my best bet is to look for an actress or someone that understands the life of being an actor or a struggling artist. Our dreams are our #1 priority. I workout 6 days a week. However, I promise that when I'm with my sweetheart to be, I will always make the most of our time together.

Poetry is like a little door to help you step into my mind (Don't try to figure me out. You'll just hurt your have no idea, ha)

I'm an actor trying to live my dream and passion in film or stage. (I dream, but I mean it). I have dreams of going across the world to pursue my career in film/screen acting, travelling to exoctic places, meeting new people, trying new things.

With that said, I'm a mature, strong man. I had a lot of life changing experiences at a very young age. I've intimately seen the worst in people and the destruction of families and values up close. My childhood... (a story for another time)

When I have the downtime in between acting and working out, I love writing and thinking creatively. My mind is a hell of a place to step into. I write plays, short stories, and poems. (ask me and I might share them with you)
Im Straight Edge (if you don't know what that means, I don't smoke, don't do drugs, dont drink) This doesn't mean I don't have fun. (above the influence)

I'm a honest and caring man. I'm not going to play games with your emotions or put you down. (let's face it, that's something we both don't have the time for, and I won't stand for my sweetie to be sad if I can help her)

Now don't judge me, I'm going to talk about my body for a sec..It's important you understand my stance...otherwise this wouldn't be in BOLD EMPH...

My body...where to begin... I don't take ROIDS! I work hard to get where I am and I'll continue to work harder to get where I'm going. I take my health seriously. I rarely get sick and I want to keep it that way. (I won't go all Nazi on you) but I would like my companion to live healthy like me and take things in moderation.

You survived, that's good, thank you for understanding that...please continue...

I come from a biker background. I currently own a 1993 Harley Sportster and her name is "Roxanne" (no not really) :P
However with the background, growing up, I've been through HELL and back, and as a result you're going to be talking to a good, clean and honest man that has learned from his father's horrible choices and experiences.
I love riding and camping in the woods. I love the feeling of surviving in nature. It's a hell of a thrill being alone in the woods, but if you are scared at first we can settle with fishing. I would say it doesn't get any better than laying next to a campfire with my lady while looking at the stars through an opening in the trees listening to nature.

I dream of love and romance. I love to just laydown sometimes with my woman holding her, and taking a nap. (love cuddling with my woman) I am very passionate and caring, taking in the small moments. (Like you don't want to hear that :P). Wrestling with her is the best, it's such a pleasure in the fight and to blow off steam. :P (By the way, you don't stand on chance. Bring it on!)

In regards to my future, I know what I want and what I don't want. Everything else in between is another story for another time. (when I decide to let you in)

Careful now, here is my stance so far on the big "God" view, here we go...

As for "god", "God", and "religion" Don't let the Catholicism worry you. I have lost faith with everything. I'm not going to force it on you or anything like that. I don't care what religion you are as long as you do not torture or kill defenseless animals for a "higher being". I'm not sure what is out there, but something is. Until that day of judgement comes, I'll talk to "God" personally. I'm a good person and if "God" won't let me into "his" "heaven" based on this, then that's a "heaven" I don't want to be a part of.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working on a career in Law Enforcement either in LAPD or Sherriff. As for right now I am working as armed security (it's a pretty sweet gig).

I'm an actor, this is my passion and dream in life. I will take it wherever it leads me. I want to moved California to break into film test all that I have learned from my years of performing in theatre. (ask me and I will share all that I have done) I'm doing film now every chance I get. I'm on the road to fulfill my acting dream

I'm a Theatre Major and graduated in the Spring of 2011 at Kent State.

My workouts are another priority in my life. I train intensely in bodybuilding/powerlifting 5-6 days a week, but I'll take a week off every couple of months (4-6) and Christmas, Thanksgiving Hollidays. (Have to live it good sometimes)

When all is said and done and I have established myself it is my dream to have a family of my own and share my story.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.


I will make sure you have a beaming smile when i'm done with you, or else...TICKLES!!!

I'm a passionate man about my love. I care for and love my woman and will share all that I am with her.

Helping people, being that I'm very patient and want to do good for others. So, personal training and making others believe in themselves pushing them just that bit to open their eyes. I do this almost on a daily basis when I'm asked advice by many in the gym. In life I'm naturally a target for people wanting to know what I'm all about and in most cases I take the time to talk to them.

I was once great with the cello and piano, but life took over. Someday I'll get back into it...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My muscles, my hair, my smile
"You look like Sylvester Stallone..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Opera music, Otis Redding, Elvis, The Smashing Pumpkins, Johnny Cash, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bjork, Metallica, Shinedown, Radiohead, The Ramones, Paul Simon, Marcy Playground, Sum 41, Tiger Army, Alter Bridge, Horrorpops, Iron Maiden, Manson, Slayer, Blue Oyster Cult, Rob Zombie, Finger Eleven, Portishead, Classical Music!!!Rock, Metal, Punk, Psychobilly, Soul, R&B a lot of stuff

Richard Pryor, Bill Cosby, George Carlin, Robin Williams, Eddie Murphy, Tommy Tiernan, Jim Breuer, Dave Chappelle, and of course... Rowan Atkinson aka "Mr. Bean"

I LOVE Discovery Channel, Animal Planet, Sci Channel, and History Channel. Dexter, Mr. Bean, The Walking Dead, MadMen, House, Bones, It's Always Sunny In Philliedelphia, The Office, Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, Sons of Anarchy, Star Trek: Next Generation, Entourage, Rome, Deadwood, The Sapranos WWE, TNA, UFC

The Mad Max series (The Road Warrior), The Shawshank Redemption, Mr. Bean, Star Wars, Blood of Heroes, Crank 1-2, Shaun of the Dead, Legend of 1900, Super Troopers, Boondock Saints, 28 Days and Weeks Later, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, The Nightmare Before Christmass, Blood In Blood Out, Platoon, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Underworld series, Rocky series, Rambo series, Rutger Hauer, Lee Marvin, Marlon Brando, Al Pacino, Robert De Niro, Sylvester Stallone, Johnny Depp, Kevin Spacy, Tom Selleck, Sam Elliot, Val Kimmer, Van Damme films ect... Some Disney Classics...

I read a lot of plays, (like I have a choice) so Shakespeare is slowly becoming acceptable and easier to read and understand.
Grendel, Beowolf, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Things They Carried.
I was really into Goosebumps and the Ghost of Fear Street series as a child.
I love fiction, (the only non-fiction would have to be based off of wars or murderers) I like mystery, horror, existential, spiritual, greek mythology (mythology period)
I read a lot of short stories: The Very Old Man with Enourmous Wings, Cathedral

Greek Classics/Epics, Burried Child, Bug, The Hairy Ape, The Homecoming, Bury the Dead, Waitng for Godot, Jet of Blood, Mother Courage, Marate/Sade

Love to cook, always learning, willing to try anything.

When I find myself bored and not willing to do anything else, I like to play State of Decay, Elder Scrolls and Fallout 3 (I'm really into Post Apocalypse stuff)
Before I switched I was all about Nintendo
My passions were Zelda, Metroid Prime, and Donkey Kong
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Grandmother
My Acting
My Workouts
My Friends
My Dreams
A Woman to share my life with(I dream... a lot)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being the actor I wish to be. (so far so good).
Women :P
Where is "the one?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out, writing, or movies...
Out killing vampires and zombies...
With friends doing anything and everything...
At home watching my TV shows from the week eating chinese food...
I don't mind just staying in relaxing and napping once in a while (I like napping with my lady, just because, I'm a great napper, like a bear...zzzz.zzzz)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I fear failure... loneliness
I fear ZOMBIES too... a little...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You made it this far and are willing to go a little further...

YOU are not a snob and treat people with respect...

You DO NOT SMOKE! I can't have that in my life, so I'll stop you right there, unless you are serious about quitting. Then by all means I will help you with all my power :) Otherwise, keep it moving. Sorry...

You don't just want sex. I'm not going to be your booty call. I don't want to be used. (I do have feelings, and it hurts when this is the case) I'm very accepting and respectful to my woman so I expect the same.

You can accept me being an actor and understand this is my dream.

You are someone who likes to live healthy, and motivate or inspire another. (I like a healthy lifestyle to match mine) It's amazing to share these qualities. If anything, do it for yourself :)

You don't have any kids. I can't be a father now, but I really want them when the time is right...

That is a lot of "YOU's"... I know, I just don't want there to be any confusion...

I'm looking for love, I'm looking for a girl with class

Message me if you want to get to know a really good man and to hear my story over the course of our relationship...

(To note: In all modesty, I'm not going try and IM or message you flirting on how hot or smart you are. If I see something catches my eye or find something unique about you, the hunt will begin and you'll hear from me)

Here I am...
I'm a rare breed... take it or leave it...
Let the hunt begin...