So, if you have a minute and feel like reading, here I am.
I hope you like to read, because this baby is long, but I try to keep it entertaining. Consider this a journey if you will... Otherwise, I have been debating on my choice with explaining too much of myself at first. I like to write though, so it comes easy to me and I can tend to go on and on. So, any feedback would be cool, or just skim through this stuff and catch the important highlights... might make life easier...maybe a little...I don't know...nothing is easy...ask an ant...but humans don't speak ant... we can just look at them as they check us out for a second and stroke their antennae then pick back up that big piece of orange peanut-butter-cracker that was left at some pool and march on their way to camp...that is if ants actually march and do it to their own drum...if they have a drummer...
Since moving out here and losing a Love, this old goody of a song sums it up the best, enjoy...
"Lonely Is the Night" - by Billy Squier: http://youtu.be/tKlu3A3BBgE
Hello, I'm John Chiara and it looks like I am back after a couple years. I just moved to California from Cleveland, Ohio a few months ago and always looking for a new friend, especially in this new territory of California.
I treat this dating site like fishing. I'll throw the line out there and wait for you to bite.
I'm not going to waste my time chasing you. If you like what you see and read let's talk :)
Fakes, creeps, sluts (do I need to go on?) etc., please stop reading and look for someone else!
Right off the bat I have learned to take things a lot slower, almost at a snail's pace. (but there is the exception of just falling madly in love, sparks flying and having no control. I don't think I'm alone when I say it is incredible. I have had it and was one of the best relationships I ever had)
Yes, I am REAL and I'm here for friends, possible networking, and that person we are searching for to share our life with...
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Well, you made it this far...This is getting fun isn't it? :o
My Latest Work of Poetry
As my candle glows,
a maroon melt pool fills
beneath the wick.
Red drops slide down
the cream colored tapper.
The flame flickers, fighting, fading, fast.
The pool piles, deepens.
The candle takes on a shape,
as more red droplets
slide down the body.
I smell an odor,
An ember remains,
over a boney finger…
Yes, I love poetry and try to keep it up when I have time or inspiration...
Me at a glance...
I live a hard life to follow. I'm finally living in California. I'm an actor (have been since highschool) and that can be very random for my relationship and may call for some distance. I think my best bet is to look for an actress or someone that understands the life of being an actor or a struggling artist. Our dreams are our #1 priority. I workout 6 days a week. However, I promise that when I'm with my sweetheart to be, I will always make the most of our time together.
Poetry is like a little door to help you step into my mind (Don't try to figure me out. You'll just hurt your head...you have no idea, ha)
I'm an actor trying to live my dream and passion in film or stage. (I dream, but I mean it). I have dreams of going across the world to pursue my career in film/screen acting, travelling to exoctic places, meeting new people, trying new things.
With that said, I'm a mature, strong man. I had a lot of life changing experiences at a very young age. I've intimately seen the worst in people and the destruction of families and values up close. My childhood... (a story for another time)
When I have the downtime in between acting and working out, I love writing and thinking creatively. My mind is a hell of a place to step into. I write plays, short stories, and poems. (ask me and I might share them with you)
Im Straight Edge (if you don't know what that means, I don't smoke, don't do drugs, dont drink) This doesn't mean I don't have fun. (above the influence)
I'm a honest and caring man. I'm not going to play games with your emotions or put you down. (let's face it, that's something we both don't have the time for, and I won't stand for my sweetie to be sad if I can help her)
Now don't judge me, I'm going to talk about my body for a sec..It's important you understand my stance...otherwise this wouldn't be in BOLD EMPH...
My body...where to begin... I don't take ROIDS! I work hard to get where I am and I'll continue to work harder to get where I'm going. I take my health seriously. I rarely get sick and I want to keep it that way. (I won't go all Nazi on you) but I would like my companion to live healthy like me and take things in moderation.
You survived, that's good, thank you for understanding that...please continue...
I come from a biker background. I currently own a 1993 Harley Sportster and her name is "Roxanne" (no not really) :P
However with the background, growing up, I've been through HELL and back, and as a result you're going to be talking to a good, clean and honest man that has learned from his father's horrible choices and experiences.
I love riding and camping in the woods. I love the feeling of surviving in nature. It's a hell of a thrill being alone in the woods, but if you are scared at first we can settle with fishing. I would say it doesn't get any better than laying next to a campfire with my lady while looking at the stars through an opening in the trees listening to nature.
I dream of love and romance. I love to just laydown sometimes with my woman holding her, and taking a nap. (love cuddling with my woman) I am very passionate and caring, taking in the small moments. (Like you don't want to hear that :P). Wrestling with her is the best, it's such a pleasure in the fight and to blow off steam. :P (By the way, you don't stand on chance. Bring it on!)
In regards to my future, I know what I want and what I don't want. Everything else in between is another story for another time. (when I decide to let you in)
Careful now, here is my stance so far on the big "God" view, here we go...
As for "god", "God", and "religion" Don't let the Catholicism worry you. I have lost faith with everything. I'm not going to force it on you or anything like that. I don't care what religion you are as long as you do not torture or kill defenseless animals for a "higher being". I'm not sure what is out there, but something is. Until that day of judgement comes, I'll talk to "God" personally. I'm a good person and if "God" won't let me into "his" "heaven" based on this, then that's a "heaven" I don't want to be a part of.