Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*UPDATE: FOUND A LOVELY GIRL AND AM IN A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP. (Still
open to having friends. No, I won't have a threesome with
~I am bisexual, but I am probably not going to take to most of the
men because, to be honest, my attractions lean more towards women
and I can meet plenty of nice, straight (or bi/questioning) men in
real life. To find other girls who like girls, the internet is a
Hi. I'm Natalie and I'm a transfer sophomore at UNC-Chapel Hill.
I'm kind of high-strung, a little wacky, a little bit too candid,
and I love to laugh and to make people laugh. I'm open-minded, but
still firm in my philosophies. Feel free to chat with me any time!
I'm actually more looking for friends than I am looking for dates,
but of course I'm open to new people and new experiences---within
NOTE: I am not bisexual because I'm indecisive. It's just who I am.
I am not promiscuous by any means and I won't ever just decide that
"I don't like girls anymore" or vice-versa.
UPDATE 03/30/2013: Friends only.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm at college. I work, I sleep, I study, I do Pilates, I make
s'mores, I have lightsabre battles with random people in the dorm
laundry room, I love the theater, I love to reenact musicals with
my Beanie Babies, and...um...I tend to procrastinate by goofing
around when I should be preparing for a
Anyway---I'm an English-Education and Theater double (or triple,
really) major. I used to know what I wanted to do in life, but now
it's a little hazy. Hell, if I ever get motivated enough, I'd want
to try and be a doctor. However, I have the urge to travel and make
a difference. If I could pick up and go off and travel the world,
volunteering at orphanages, and teaching kids songs, I would. But
I've got a family to think about, so it'll have to wait.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing psychotic/zany characters in theatrical productions, being
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"OMFG why is she wearing so much pink?!"
"Why is she so...twitchy...?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm not going to list these because I think it's fun to find out
about these things on the first date. Great icebreakers. :) BUT...I
am a geek on top of loving classic cinema, good books, and quality
television. I also love trying new foods, though I sometimes forget
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My cat, Alexei (Hopefully I'll be able to live with him next
year and get out of the dorms.)
4. My family
5. Air-conditioning or a highly satisfactory substitute
(Sorry...but it's true. I hate being too hot.)
6. Language. I love to talk and to hear others talk. It's just kind
of my thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...Do you really want to know?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...becoming one with The Force.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...I have a blankie. I've had it all my life and cannot sleep
without it. It's kind of pathetic looking now even when my Aunt
helped me turn it into a pillow...but I love that thing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) You're looking for a friend.
2) You're looking for a friend to possibly date.
3) You're looking for someone to play Scrabble with.
4) You want to Rickroll me.
~o~For Potential Romantic Interests: My Non-Negotiables~o~
1) You must support Gay marriage.
2) You must not smoke or do any other kind of drug. (If you've been
clean for over two years, you're fine. And if you smoke hookah once
in awhile, that's chill...but let's get real.)
3) You must not have any history of being unkind to children or
animals. (The time when you were five and wrapped your cat up in a
blanket to make her your "baby" does not count.)
4) I want someone who shares a lot of my interests. Sure,
differences are great, but it's hard when two people have /nothing/
5) You must not be racist, sexist, homophobic, or bigoted in any
6) You must never abuse me (or anyone else) physically or
mentally...without my consent. xD
7) Be driven and have a goal (even if it's vague) that you want to
accomplish in life.
8) You must not get drunk all the time.
9) You must care about what is going on in the world.
10) You should have a sense of humor or at least be amusing to
11) You must understand that I have trouble saying no at times and
that unless you really know me, I don't feel comfortable being
12) If you feed me cheesy romantic lines, cite your sources. I know
my movies, plays, TV shows, etc. I will usually know that you
didn't think that up yourself. Please just impress me with your
knowledge of culture instead of making me roll my eyes at
13) You must understand that, as of now, my family takes priority.
Of course that will change once I really fall in love and find the
one, but right now, if (for example) my little sister needs me, I'm
there for her in a heartbeat.
14) This may sound extremely petty, but you must be clean-shaven
and maintain your facial hair. This is ONLY if I am dating you, of
course. A little stubble is fine as well. But no other forms of
facial hair, please. Do not take offense. It's just my preference.
Just like I'd understand if you weren't attracted to white people
or people with brown eyes. I wouldn't get offended.
15) You must be clean. That means hygienic, drug-free,
cigarette-free, and you need to let me know about any STDs and/or
transmittable diseases. "Cluttered" more than fine. Another
exception is the cleanliness of your mind. That can be as dirty as
you'd like. Also, try to smell decent. I understand that you're not
going to smell like roses after working out, but try to take a
shower as soon as you can. And brush your teeth (and chew some gum
if you start to get not-so-fresh).
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