Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ok I'm 49 and after spending more than a couple of years alone to
regroup after the end of my last relationship I am growing tired of
first dates. I am not looking for one night stands or to play the
field. I don't want to jump right into bed or right into a
relationship. Let's get to know each other first.
I want to meet that one woman I've been looking for my entire life.
I haven't any expectations other than she is confident about whom
she is and willing to take the chance of opening up and sharing all
of who and what she is.....as I am willing to do the same. If we
both like what we see that's great and if not, you go your way I'll
go mine each of us richer for knowing each other and for making
I don't want a challenge and I don't want to walk thru fire to
prove myself as I don't expect that of you. Can't we just start off
even with a clean slate and be judged by our own actions rather
than by unpleasant memories?
Anyway, I like good conversation
, the theater
, museums Flea Markets cooking
, dining out
and many more things. I
, Puerto Rican steaks BBQ Chinese
food and can make many of these
types of food and more at home.
I am a naturally dominant man though not overbearing or a complete
control freak. When I do take charge it's almost always with my
partners best interest in heart and mind. I am honest and up front,
well mannered, patient, funny, romantic, understanding, loyal,
proud and intelligent. Want to know more? Then just ask me anything
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Several mon ths ago I found myself out of a job. I was good at what
I did and liked it but the position left me very little time for
myself and so I had no personal life outside of work. My elderly
Mother was facing surgery and so I moved in with them where I help
care for them.
I am looking for a new career where I can have a real life and I am
considering going back to school. While Ive been here I wrote my
first novel and signed a contract for publication with Fanny Press.
The release date is Jan 15th, 2014! It's already available for
presale on Amazon! Im working on several more right now and enjoy
writing very much.
Check out my websites:
My Writer's Blog http://www.mikenappi.mastergrowls.com
My Book http://www.pleasurepains.mastergrowls.com
My alter ego for bdsm erotica http://www.mastergrowls.com
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding humor in most situations, making other people laugh, having
a good time where ever I am...
Also, getting to know and understand someone I care about.
Remembering the little details like a favorite flower or old song
that can mean a lot to someone..... I am also very handy and like
doing things around the house, painting, building things fixing
things. I am also good at communicating which I think is very
important in a relationship.
I'm also good at fishing, boating, shooting, singing, writing,
keeping a calm head under pressure and I am a gourmet cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my size...6'1" broad shouldered big boned and told I can
be rather intimidating (actually I'm a big teddy bear as long as
you dont mess with the ones I love)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Victor Hugo's "Les Miserables" The "Harry Potter" series,
Carl Haaissan's "Sick Puppy" series, Jimmy Buffet's "A Salty Piece
of Land". Movies:Mel Brooks "History of the World Part 1", "Blazing
Saddles" John Wayne movies especially with him and Maureen Ohara,
Braveheart, The Green Mile. Music: Classic Rock and Roll is my
favorite but I love all kinds of music, and Sushi is my favorite
also love Italian.
I love karaoke too and like to sing songs by Creed, Eric Clapton,
The Doors, Bob Seger, Elvis, Sinatra and more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Sunshine, Fun, Hugs, Food, Family and something to write or
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How everything could be twice as sweet with the right person to
share it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home reading, on the computer or watching something on TV that
probably no one else is watching, or reading. Cooking at home or
maybe out for Sushi
You should message me if
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If like me, you feel that a relationship is about complimenting
each other and making each other's life a little better by being
Also, if you like what you've seen and read...preferably if you are
local. Definately be single too!!
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